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About LinkBacksI believe that there are 2 or more types or orgasms and I was wondering which is the strongest and most enjoyable.
Right now I am only having clitoral orgasms and was wondering if I was missing out on something???
Which is better for you - clitoral or vaginal orgasm?
I believe that there are 2 or more types or orgasms and I was wondering which is the strongest and most enjoyable.
Right now I am only having clitoral orgasms and was wondering if I was missing out on something???
Clitoral orgasm for me happens more frequently. G-spot (is this considered a vaginal orgasm - lol) is definitely the most intense and pleasurable orgasm ever. A combination of both at the same time, literally takes my breath away!!!
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Have both regular and love them both they are different in feel but love them both the same
Good question...
I have always pondered this question but in my experience I have the most intense orgasms when I'm on top so I think that is vaginal...
If I understand the anatomy and I think I do, it's all part of the same nerve network from the clit. Think about it, those 8000 nerves all connect and flow to other areas. For me the so called vaginal orgasm is better. It's the connection, the shared energy that really moves it up a level and that depends in large part on how I feel about the man, how we interact, how our energy flows together.
It is possible to have just sex, it's just putting parts of two bodies together, you cum, they cum, that feels good - 10 mins later, who cares? Blah. I mean really. It's better than masterbating, which for me is a physical release to keep me from climbing the walls.
This doesn't happen with every man or even most. But when it does it is phenominal. It can and has happened with the man in my life but he backed off and turned into boarderline blah. Maybe it scared him. I don't see it as clit vs vaginal, it's totally connected vs barely connected. One is sublime the other is sex. It's a different thing all together. I guess, beyond sex or even what we call love. So back to the origninal question, once you move beyond trying to orgasm to becoming orgasmic, it isn't either/or, one or the other, both are good. They involve the same response system, just different approaches. The "vaginal" can be more intense because it can involve stimulation from the clit as well as vaginal nerve centers.
Thanks Ladies - I am trying to make the most of my situation and needing any advice I can get. I love to cum - could do it multiple times a day (but I don't) so I want it to be the best every time.
Oh HUN, I know exactly what you mean. I could cum like 100X a day and still would need more. It is jsut one of those things. ]Originally Posted by Theresa
I Personally enjoy clitoral more. I get more of a sensation. ( body shaking and feeling the muscles tense) than the other way.
Cumming is the best feeling in the world in my opinion. It is a good thing I work from 8 to 5 or else I would be taking care of myself many times a day.
I am glad you think clitoral orgasms are better because that is all I get. It is purely my doing as my DH does not help me out. I have not had a body shaking orgasm but working on it.
When you have a clitoral orgasm what do you do to make it "body shaking". I would love that. Mine are good but not great.
I have to say that I build it up. I think of my Bf with me and I just get to it. I sometimes look at porn on tv. ( we have a channel 24/7) You really have to be in the mood and turned on to have one that big. It is not always like this. SOme are more intense. Some are less intense. It is different everyday.
With me it helps that I know my DH is enjoying me as much as I enjoy him. He gets off on seeing me climax and vice versa. We are very in tune with the others body and responses. I know from reading your posts that is something that you struggle with in regards to your DH.
If it helps, I can bring myself to an insanely intense orgasm, intense enough that I squirt, but again he's always with me and I think part of it is knowing how much he enjoys watching me. Maybe you could work on that... For me I have to be in a whole different mindset, but if it works...
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May the fleas of a thousand camels infest the crotch of the person who screws up your day and may their arms be too short to scratch.
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