Flashing as foreplay?!

**DiamondsOne** · 08-16-2009 03:54 PM

I saw a friend I hadn't seen for ages over this weekend and we drank a bit, we talked and we talked 'sex' the more we drank. Turns out, she and her beau are into a little flesh flashing here and there - they watch the reaction they get and then rush off to work off all the tension generated

It's not something I have really ever got involved in but wondered if anyone here had (I do have a few stories for another time though). I won't go into too much detail, but she said it's easier if you 'forget' your underwear - and for the guys - I gather towels can fall from your waist when the room service girl walks into the hotel room

I have to be honest - it did get me thinking though.

**CHANDLERS WISH** · 08-17-2009 04:59 AM

62 views, no replies?

Geez people...

Okay.... They like the thrill... It excites them to entice but you can't have....

That part you already know.

Why would you not be a tad, cheeky in your thinking? I have flashed, but to family cause my Mother did, so it was funny then and it was funny when I did it... Brother, Father, Mother, ... they were shocked but it was funny... They are family and not twisted so it was okay.

So tell your stories, that's why no one has responded, they can't laugh at you like they will at me!!!!

I have no idea what a man can do, Hotel room doesn't come to light for me... that would be cheating.

But, I have gone out without underwear and have not done the Sharon Stone, but just the mear thought of not wearing them, as a single woman, is well, exciting, kind of makes you all woman and gives you even more confidence.

Does that help with your post?

CW

**DiamondsOne** · 08-17-2009 11:46 AM

I suppose first, I should have explained that the 'hotel situations' she told me about took place when they were both in the room. Apparently she orders and he appears from the bathroom having just showered on 'cue' when room service arrives - which also 'cues' his towel to fall down.

I don't think she has exactly done a sharon stone - but she told me about a few incidents where she has sat on stools in bars and cafe's .... I guess you can work out the rest.

My own experiences have been somewhat more reserved to less threatening territory. I went through a phase of leaving my bedroom curtains partially open while dressing/undressing. I can't really explain the sensations but it felt good at the time.

And I once realised (After sunbathing several times - completely naked) that the balcony in our hotel room could be seen by other rooms. After an initial 'oh no' I decided to carry on. Pleasant feelings all round hopefully but I didn't specifically use it as foreplay.

**CHANDLERS WISH** · 08-17-2009 06:13 PM

I don't see it any in-different than being out in the woods, where people "may" walk past and doing your thing.

It's the thrill of being caught. That's the exciting part....

**Beautiful Disaster** · 08-17-2009 06:43 PM

Hmmm...have never done the flashing thing....but I can see where it might spark some excitement. Nakedness is exciting....especially for the naked person.

It's exhilarating and makes you feel vulnerable yet in control all at the same time. My guys a cop...so I doubt I'll ever get to experience that, but hey it's a nice thought.

**WildChild** · 08-17-2009 07:39 PM

For me it's one thing to let that special someone in on a glimpse or tell him I'm wearing stockings, no undies but having been stalked( by a complete stranger) the idea of doing something that might enitice the attention of a stranger-No Thanks.

**Little** · 08-17-2009 09:03 PM

Eek, exhibitionism. Depending on your view, it could be just "good clean fun" or downright sick. In either case, it's oftentimes illegal, and explaining a fetish to a judge is very far down on my want-to-do list!
"Less threatening territory" sounds like a nice, safe way to go about making yourself feel sexy, thrilling, etc without infringing on the rights of others ... what if that poor hotel maid was someone who was sexually abused or assaulted in the past? Wonder how s/he'd feel about that "innocent" towel-drop in that case. Probably terribly humiliated, especially since it's not hard to tell when something is a "fake accident."

**SinisterUrge** · 08-18-2009 07:19 AM

1. Its illegal (of course it seems everything fun is)
2. Its typically a misdemeanor crime, but if a 12 year old happens to see you, well, its a short trip to the sexual predator websites
3. some psychologists believe exhibitionism is an early stage of sex addiction (read Out Of The Shadows by Patrick Carnes if you're interested)

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