Thread: First time sex problems

I've found that doggy-style (i.e. woman on her hand and knees, man behind) isn't the most accessible position in virginal sex because the woman's butt prevents the man from penetrating as deep as possible, which he may need to do to compensate for the tightness.

The position I've found that provides the easiest access is missionary with the legs up a bit and pushed a bit toward the woman. This leaves her totally exposed, so it's really as close as the pelvis can get without someone having to amputate their legs.

(Logically it should be the scissors position, but I've had better results with missionary for some reason. It's also more comfortable for the man, so he won't tire as much.)

As a side note, when it comes to sex with virgins (i.e. those new to intercourse), two words should always be kept in mind: slowly, delicately. Avoids "slipping out" and keeps the pain to a minimum.

Originally Posted by daydreamer82

[FONT="Comic Sans MS"]Hey all,

Firstly I'm a rather large girl and am about 5'6, he is 6'3 average build and I can just about support his weight on top of me (if I breathe at the right times lol )

This may be something you are doing wrong. You shouldn't have to support his weight on you to the point that it makes it hard to breath. Get him to prop himself up on his hands. You'll be able to breath, and you'll both be able to control what's going on "down there" a lot better, and it should help prevent slipping out.

Originally Posted by Katsaly

This may be something you are doing wrong. You shouldn't have to support his weight on you to the point that it makes it hard to breath. Get him to prop himself up on his hands. You'll be able to breath, and you'll both be able to control what's going on "down there" a lot better, and it should help prevent slipping out.

Yeah he was using his hands to prop himself up sometimes, same thing was still happening

Thank you all SO much for your advice it's been truly helpful!

If you can't put your legs on his shoulder and don't want doggy (though I understand the reason) try the one with your legs slightly open and knees to your chest. He can rest on your feet, see his target (because he would be sitting upright) and penetrate as deep as his little heart desires

you guys should try it in the shower .. makes everything a bit easily and romantic.

ha actually me and this guy ive been seeing for quite some time now we both recently tried it in the shower and it worked great.
almost fell a couple of times but it actually helps get you turned on .. and helps out with relaxing.

Yep, just make sure the water's not too cold.

lol yeah man or else u might get sick i remember getting sick that night