Is lust a sin? Life is short, be safe and enjoy it.

BTW, ladies. I'm 45. Was lust crazed at 18, late 20's early thirties and now. I suppose it's hormonal, but also emotional. The better I feel about myself the more I enjoy my body and what it's capable of

I agree with you Irene, when I'm happy, I'm horny! Age doesn't seem to have anything to do with it! Problem is finding a partner who can keep up.

hahah my bf tells me he is not a machine. I find that so funny cause alot of guys biggest complaint is they don't get enough lovin. I'm lovin my dirty thirties........

Oh Yeah! (lol) What I'm dealing with is, he's can always get it up for his five fingers, five times a day but I'm on the shelf. Men complain about women not wanting it but then they shut down, shut you out and then don't understand why they can't just hit the button have you raring to go. I'm thinking about printing up personal cards - Ms. Poison, Kiss of Death to Male Libido. If I get one more turn down I just may do it, got a pile of card stock for the printer around here somewhere....

I am so glad to read everyone elses experience I am 33 and in love with my 40 year old husband who is very good in bed,problem is we have two small children and he just cannot keep up with my appetite and I never used to feel this way. I began craving other mens attention until it has just become an addiction to me that at one time it was affecting my job and my attitude at home. I began to have an affair and he as well cannot keep up with me. I feel so ashamed but I seem to have no self control anymore and I am scared it is going to jump up and bite me soon. If I feel not so alone I feel like maybe I can deal with this problem. I would like some kind of control back. I as well as people here in the forum have watched porn and masturbated several times a week. Thank you all for being so frank.

In youth we don't appreciate those young men with all that staying power and repeats. I'm not much into porn, can take it or leave it. Masterbation gets boring after a few years. I'd take a guess that what you are missing is the feeling of deep connection that comes with good sex in a good relationship. I've avoided having affairs - just too complicated - but it has been tempting in the past.

I'd make a couple of suggestions; find a good counselor who can help you understand this need and two start focusing on quality in your sexual experience. Look into tantra and Extended Massive Orgasm which focus on a high quality experience with self control. EMO requires the ability to totally relax but that actually takes a high degree of self control. A good intense exersize program may help too. But my top guess with this is that you are missing something emotionally and trying to fill the void with sex. Get some professional non-religious (you don't need a guilt trip) assistance, you don't want to lose your marriage or kids over this addiction.

i'm 31 and i swear in just like the last two weeks i am horny every day. i've always had a good amount of lust going but this is nuts! i just can't get it to go away. i have sex with my husband-it's still there-i go to work-it nags me (when we having sex again? after work? as soon as we get home? huh huh huh?)-i masturbate till i'm sore-still there!!!!. i feel like i'm going crazy and that i'm going to end up making my husband feel like a tool. as someone in this forum mentioned exercise does help, but the draw back is that it has increased my flexibility and stamina, not to mention made me lose a couple pounds which makes me feel sexier!!!!!!!!! aaaaaaaaaaaaaaah!!!! seriously, can someone please just tell me where the off switch is?! i'm tired and my box is bruised!!!