Thread: My boyfriend takes forever to come

Mine takes forever too! Not quite an hour each time, and just as with you, blow jobs make it come faster (no pun intended :P) His problem is he can't always concentrate enough to cum, especially if he's tired. Considering I like night sex, it's little problem :/
How does he feel about not cumming in a session of sex? Mine is really easygoing about it. I would drive myself crazy and run ragged if I tried to make him cum every time. That's our solution.

Could be pressure -- even though you don't pressure him. Sometimes its hard to orgasm if your mind is on other things , think of yourself ... and how sometimes if your mind wanders to something else it takes a while to come, if it all on those days. Is there any stress going on in his life right now that might be making his brain not relax?

Does he have fears of getting you pregnant? Are you on the pill ? Is he using a condom? Sometimes fear can make a guy lose an erection/ and or make it hard to orgasm. Condoms reduce sensativity, I say wear it anyway if thats the issue, and he will eventually get use to coming that way.

Definitely needs to hold out on masturbating, a lot of guys wont admit to doing it recently to their gf... for some weird reason but if he's tugging one out in the morning when he gets up, he's going to take a little bit longer to orgasm for you later. It sounds like he understands that so it shouldn't be the issue.

Any distractions when you are having sex? Does he know you want him to finish sooner? The pressure to come might have an opposite effect. Tell him you don't care when or if he comes when you have sex, that you just want it to feel good to both of you... if it happens it happens, and thats great.

When you feel him getting close, during sex, keep up with whatever your doing. If he's trying to impress and change positions and all that and is focused more on performance it will be harder for him to orgasm. You can also try (if you don't already) a little dirty talk, role play or fantasy swapping during sex to heat it up a bit.

Figuring out sex in other languages/cultures is fun And strange. I speak a lot of French but don't know how to sex in it :/ Only English and Spanish, and only sexing in English right now. Monolingual relationships are easy, hehe.
One of the ways I figured out comfortably talking dirty in Spanish was to listen to really trashy rap songs It sounds crazy, but it worked! It helped me feel like I was saying things that sounded natural in that language ... though I've heard rap du francais and I don't think it sounds very natural at all.
Good luck!