Oh yeah, a few more things. I used to have this problem when giving him a blowjob, but we finally seem to have gotten over that hump (I think I may hold a record with an hour and 10 minute blowjob!) and now he comes fairly easily with that. Also, when we talked about it I asked him if he took that long when he masturbated and he said no, but that he hadn't masturbated very recently. I'm not sure what that means coming from a guy ;-), but it at least seems to me that he isn't masturbating all the time and thus being unable to perform during sex.