eating out

**Theresa** · 08-28-2009 02:19 PM

Originally Posted by OhThereYouAre

20 years?!!

When I showed her she could get off orally she expressed concerns that she's going to want it all the time, lol.

When I added some g-spot stimulation to it, she expressed concerns that I'm going to need a neckbrace.

These were very recent discoveries for us....so don't feel alone!

Be a little more vocal....when you two are in the heat of things, dirty talk to him how you want his tongue down there....then slowly push it down.

Good Luck.

I think she is right. The feeling is amazing and hard not to want it all the time but foreplay is a good thing for a healthy sex life which includes oral for BOTH involved.

Although I am horny alot it is still hard to get excited when you only give and not receive. I am happy that my DH is satisfied in bed but it is frustrating that I don't get that satisfaction also.

**GlitterAndStuds** · 08-28-2009 04:02 PM

I was ready to say what OTYA said. Such a smart one

But yeah, I think what you have to do right now is exactly that. Not necessarily like "get your head down there soldier!" but yeah, when he gets you super turned on just give him a nudge. If he doesn't get it then.... I don't even know. Try it this weekend! Guys do appreciate a woman who can take charge.

**LanaBear** · 08-28-2009 04:19 PM

Originally Posted by OhThereYouAre

Be a little more vocal....when you two are in the heat of things, dirty talk to him how you want his tongue down there....then slowly push it down.

Yep - I little dirty talk goes a long way sometimes...

**Steph33** · 08-29-2009 06:34 AM

My b/f is a cannibal, he'd rather eat me than be inside me. I can cum 4-5 times when I'm on top and (gently) riding while he gives me oral and the more wet the more excited he gets. Never was with anyone who liked it as much, and he's REAL good at it. I'm spoiled for being with anyone else, your guy just needs a "taste" to enjoy what he's missing.

**Texinator** · 10-23-2009 12:39 AM

Originally Posted by GlitterAndStuds

but when I see how excited some guys get about it

Haha, when there's a vag that needs lickin'

It's showtime!

**nightqueen** · 10-23-2009 08:58 AM

Originally Posted by Theresa

I think she is right. The feeling is amazing and hard not to want it all the time but foreplay is a good thing for a healthy sex life which includes oral for BOTH involved.

Although I am horny alot it is still hard to get excited when you only give and not receive. I am happy that my DH is satisfied in bed but it is frustrating that I don't get that satisfaction also.

Not being mean or anything Theresa, but I just think it's interesting that you think he's a wonderful husband and yet he is a selfish lover and doesn't see any need to satisfy you. How in-tune to you is he really?? 20 years without oral sex and you loved it so much?? And you do it to him?? That just doesn't sound right.

**Texinator** · 10-23-2009 09:21 AM

Originally Posted by Tex

That'll be the Clitical Thinking logo by the way.

**GlitterAndStuds** · 10-23-2009 10:11 AM

Originally Posted by Tex

That'll be the Clitical Thinking logo by the way.

Hahahaha... you crack me up! It's definitely a fine way of thinking

**Ahryin** · 10-23-2009 10:29 AM

Originally Posted by bitemesmokymcpot

My boyfirend says he doesnt want to go down on me because "itll be like licking a water slide" it kinda makes me feel like im to wet when he says that. iv never been gone down on and dont know how it feels so i dont know if im missing out on anything. i dont want to force him to do it. i like the other stuff we do. im just really curious about it all really and if you think there would be anyway to change his mind.

Tell him you can't service him because it would be like sucking on a stiff pole and cross your hands, tilt your head and make the ill face!

**Ahryin** · 10-23-2009 10:30 AM

Oh and if you can (if you are quick enough...because you can only get his off if you have that don't mess with me face and attitude at the exact moment you need to have it) SMACK him upside his head and walk away mumbling loudly dumb arse! and roll your eyes!

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