eating out
My boyfirend says he doesnt want to go down on me because "itll be like licking a water slide" it kinda makes me feel like im to wet when he says that. iv never been gone down on and dont know how it feels so i dont know if im missing out on anything. i dont want to force him to do it. i like the other stuff we do. im just really curious about it all really and if you think there would be anyway to change his mind.
trust me you are missing out on something that can be absolutely amazing if the man who eating you out knows what hes doing
as for changing his mind , you can try talking to him and telling how you feel that he doesn't want to do it makes feel bad about yourself and makes feel your missing out on a fun part of sex for you.
if the above doesn't work you got to decide if you want to live without it or find a new boyfriend
Make him a deal that you'll both go down on each other. If he's like any other guy, he'll love seeing you enjoying it and want to do it more.
Licking a water slide? That sounds a lot more fun than licking carpet, so I don't know what he's complaining about
Well observed.Originally Posted by Katsaly
Licking a water slide? That sounds a lot more fun than licking carpet, so I don't know what he's complaining about
Perhaps you should in-deed make that statement as stated above.
I would suggest that you start with asking him to only go down south, on your clit initially and then get him used to trying further.
Sounds like he can't fathom the beauty of a woman.
CW
Do we not realise that in order to find a soul
It doesn't happen over night
if truth were to be told.
Like everything in life that's hard to achieve
you must believe!
You might point out to him that (a) it's that wetness that makes sex fun and pleasurable (b) that is an indicator of how much he turns you on and (c) if he wants you to go down on him he needs to reciprocate.
We can only learn to love by loving. - Iris Mudoch, British writer
I agree with Wildchild. He needs to understand what that being wet means. Thats a horrible thing to say to a women. I'm sorry, if at the end of the day he still refuses then I'd pull out the "what you give is what you shall receive". He can't ask from you, what he's not willing to do himself. I should know, I refused to go down on a guy, but I never asked or really wanted a guy to go down on me either. Now that I do go down on him, well what I get as a thank you is just oh so much more fun. I honestly didn't like it until i found the right guy to share it with.
I've never understood that.
If he doesn't like vag....what does he like?
Man, I've never met a guy who wouldn't jump at the chance to go down on a woman. Honestly, if you'd asked this question a couple of years ago I would've said "eh...you could do without it". Obviously, those guys back then weren't doing it right. I look forward to every time my SO does it.
If he's never done it before though, I can see why he may be skeptical I guess. For a long time, I didn't like the idea of going down on a guy either, but now I really like doing it. He shouldn't knock it till he's tried it.
And I completely agree with WC... it's when you're NOT wet that he should be concerned.
I've got to be direct
If I'm off please correct
You're standing on my neck....
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