Thread: Getting men to be on the receiving end

Originally Posted by OhThereYouAre

Meh - She put her vibe in there a long time ago.

from the look of that smiley face you didnt enjoy it?

Originally Posted by XxBrOkeNxX

For now we are sticking to the toys he is actually online right now looking for toys...

How far is the farthest any guy here has let their SO go when it comes to the butt area???

My SO has a thing for butt play,but wouldn't admit to me for a while that he was into it for HIM as well. We experimented a bit a while ago with fingers etc, and for his birthday I let him do me (which was a first). We kept on experimenting with his end but abruptly stopped. He has issues with it sometimes - he's scared it's just "gay".

Finally last month he let us play around and we used a toy all the way. I was surprised at how hot it made me. I was so turned on, and he loved it! The next day he was practically begging for it again! Later on we had a conversation and he decided he only wanted it every few months or so. I'm okay with that because I'm not a big fan of being on the recieving end, but I can't wait till he's ready again!

Originally Posted by Miya

I've heard about that but OMG how in the world could someone take a fist in there???

Lots of lube, and you have to start stretching a few days ahead of time. Suffice to say I only did it once.

Originally Posted by vesper_pt

My SO has a thing for butt play,but wouldn't admit to me for a while that he was into it for HIM as well. We experimented a bit a while ago with fingers etc, and for his birthday I let him do me (which was a first). We kept on experimenting with his end but abruptly stopped. He has issues with it sometimes - he's scared it's just "gay".

Finally last month he let us play around and we used a toy all the way. I was surprised at how hot it made me. I was so turned on, and he loved it! The next day he was practically begging for it again! Later on we had a conversation and he decided he only wanted it every few months or so. I'm okay with that because I'm not a big fan of being on the recieving end, but I can't wait till he's ready again!

Thats pretty exciting... I am sure my SO is happy to hear he isnt the only guy... He was a little worried over the gay thing as well but i told him that it was ok and i knew he wasnt gay... so it a relief for him to hear other straight men enjoy it as well...