Thread: Getting men to be on the receiving end

How many of you have been able to get their men to try what they want you to try?

For instance anything anal... since some men want their women to do anal how many women have been able to get their men to try it too?

I have a bf who is willing to try anything... as long as we are both gentle and that were are... he is the first guy i have ever been with that has honestly been very open and willing to try anything once... he is always gentle and never trys to make me do things i dont want to do... Hes really awesome in the bedroom which is amazing to me seeings as i am his first...

how does he try anal ?????????????

"Anal buggery" is a medieval Greek practice intended to not violate a girl's virginity before marriage, a practice the Greek race has passed over...

Today, I think response to your question, Broken, would simply be "different strokes for different folks". In other words, if you both are happy of sharing your ways of making love then there is no reason to be objectional when the risks of each others health are considered first and above all other things...

It's wonderful that your relationship has no bounds and will surely be lasting because of this...

I wish you both the utmost of shared love and longevity...

Sandra_does

Thanks sandra...

And its not that he tried anal... its just that he is open for us to try and thing... he does how ever let me gently play with his butt when we are doing other things...

He truly is the best i have ever had and he makes me feel soo amazing... i love making him feel the same way... we are both pretty kinky... but we arent into the bondage stuff or anything like that...

We like toys and crazy positions and exciting things...he always likes for us to try new things and new positons right now his favorite is him sitting on the couch and me straddling him...he said he really likes the closeness and the deep penentration...

So i take it from one of the posts on this thread some guys are up for a female to massage or gently finger their butts... would some guys who enjoy this be able to tell me how it makes them feel... i know when my bf goes down on me and fingers my butt it makes my "O's" very intense and i can do it over and over and over until he stops.

Thanks for your posts!

Originally Posted by XxBrOkeNxX

He truly is the best i have ever had and he makes me feel soo amazing.

And since he's only guy #1 he's technically the WORST you've ever had too. :P

but we arent into the bondage stuff or anything like that...

Have you tried it yet? I'm reasonably sure that being blindfolded and having your wrists tied to the headboard while he drizzles you in caramel before spending 72 minutes licking it off is a pretty good way to fill-up an afternoon.

So i take it from one of the posts on this thread some guys are up for a female to massage or gently finger their butts... would some guys who enjoy this be able to tell me how it makes them feel.

I'm not sure I can explain prostate stimulation to someone who doesn't have one. But done correctly it will feel better for him than it will for her.

*Latex gloves (fingernails are sharp, rectal walls are sensitive.)
*Lube (You can buy at most drugstores or online)
*Go slow, plenty of time to relax.
*Rimming is always a great way to get people to let you stick a finger in there.

He isnt my first i am his first... thats why its so amazing....

I never really looked at being tied up as bondage... but we are into that kind of stuff... just not latex outfits and electrical stuff...

To guys who enjoy prostate massages... what makes them so enjoyable?

Thank you!

XxBrOkeNxX

Originally Posted by XxBrOkeNxX

To guys who enjoy prostate massages... what makes them so enjoyable?

Thank you!

XxBrOkeNxX

It's just a different sexual feeling. I guess you could say its an urgent pressure that feels pleasurable. In addition, sometimes having something in your butt when you're climaxing makes it more intense and you can feel the muscle contractions more.

OTYA, is this something you do on the regular or just now and then...

So in a sense its kinda the same feeling for both men and women... if the men let it happen of course...

My boyfriend didnt want to be the only one who was okay with having his butt played with... It is very sexy to me when we are having intercourse and my finger is in his butt when he comes i can not only feel him coming in me (with a condom) and feel his butt tighten around my finger....

Originally Posted by XxBrOkeNxX

OTYA, is this something you do on the regular or just now and then...

So in a sense its kinda the same feeling for both men and women... if the men let it happen of course...

My boyfriend didnt want to be the only one who was okay with having his butt played with... It is very sexy to me when we are having intercourse and my finger is in his butt when he comes i can not only feel him coming in me (with a condom) and feel his butt tighten around my finger....

It's definitely an every now and then thing. I don't ask for it - she sometimes just starts poking around that area - no pun intended. I could do with or without it. Sometimes if she starts playing too early it interrupts my sensations.

Thinking about it, yes - I'd imagine women get the same feeling of "fullness" if they have something in their hole(s) when they climax. I say fullness because that is the way its been described to me by women.