How does that work? 2 weeks? He should be about ready to explode.Originally Posted by Theresa
I have been doing exctly that and no action from my husband in over 2 weeks.
It is a good thing I am taking care of myself or I would be in the looney bin.
Thank you for your quick reply...
We've been together for 2 years, I work afternoons and he works midnights, so we usually see eachother with the changing of shifts for about 5 minutes. When hes working I am sleeping, when hes sleeping Im worrking! We have Friday, Saturday and sunday off, so i usually spend the weekend with him. Up until a few weeks ago he would at least respond to my racey texts, with a cute comment or even send a picture, but lately he doesn't even respond to them. The text messages he does reply to are delayed and straight to the point. So i wonder if he is just no longer into me, or if he is seeing someone else? Hes free every work day til 10 pm, when his shift starts.
Thank you for all your help.
Actually, men's bodies work in such a way that a certain amount of sperm finds its way out whether they ejaculate or not. So, 'exploding' is basically a myth created by men to make women believe that they have to have sex with their men in order to please them. It's more about sex drive and mentally wanting to have sex than physically having to have sex. Many women feel like 'exploding' without sex and they don't have testicles.
I absolutely agree!
Well...you would think that!I know I am.
If sharing the frustration helps, count me in. You can't force a man to get an errection and share it. If the man you care for and are dedicated to won't go there, you're kind of stuck. Exersize helps, working your butt off helps, masterbating at least takes the edge off although it's just not the same. Some how it's not so bad if there isn't anyone special in your life. Maybe that's just me?
We can only learn to love by loving. - Iris Mudoch, British writer
It's about control and since the baby, he's likely to have had lots of feelings he's been unable to express. All the time and attention you give the baby for example. He does the right thing, has less sex for ages and then 6 weeks after the birth he's being told what to do again...and again.
May I suggest you stop asking for sex and give a bit of control back to him. Let him decide for a change.
Worth a try?
I used the word "exploding" as a metaphor. The longer I go without release, the more ejaculate and usually the stronger muscle contractions with orgasm. So - you could say - that a greatly delayed ejaculation could be described as "explosive." Let's be serious here, i'm not talking about spontaneous combustion.
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