I can not see a future with man like this, maybe I am wrong, however, everything in life is a "mutual street, is it not"...?
Curious, you broke up because?
Sorry to ask as well but does he feel inferior, in-other-words, is his apartment small?
Any "loving man that loves him woman, unless she is "kinky" and it's mutual between the too Sinister...., a poster's name, and yet, understand their love, surely, surely, would not want this for his WOMAN.
You are speaking as if he made the suggestion and you are asking if this is normal.
Unless, you both have kindy instincts, want the same thing, enjoy different things sexually, together.