Thread: sex...living with bf...not what i expected!

Originally Posted by WildChild

sexual relationship become much more important. It's much more than just a body to body thing. When the deeper connection is there, the sex gets better because it has so much more depth to it.

Couldn't agree more, and it works that way for both sexes. I remember a friend of mine introduced me to a guy she USE to date that she dumped. He was one of the more beautiful looking persons of the male species I'd seen in person. Her new boyfriend was no where near as outwardly attractive and I asked her ... what is that all about it... meaning why she dumped the guy... she said oh you'll know why...

So when she introduced us he began to speak and the more he talked the less attractive he became. He was not very bright at all... sweet guy, but smart as a rock... He would have been nice to have on the arm at a shallow party but nights in at home would be torture i'd imagine lol..

Men will put up with that more than women will it seems. If a girl is hot enough they can take less meaningful conversation, but even then -- it gets old. Beauty really is only skin deep. Of course attraction is necessary, but I'd much rather have someone I can love in the privacy of my own home, and respect... to someone I tolerate just to show off in public.

ha, when I moved in with my g/f I thought i was going to get to have sex more often. I was really wrong...I could and would have sex at least once a day, given the chance. I hope it works out for you.