LiLp

Me and my man have been together for a while. To be honest he isn't the biggest I've had but he knows what to do.

Anyway, Weird thing is he loves to go down on me(Whenever he gets a chance) and he loves anal. I don't mind either, especially the first one but the second one is rare when I let hiim. I have a fear we'll do it and he'll come back with a rusty trumpet.
Weird thing is we both love it doggy but sometimes thats the best way to feel it..

We have great sex and god knows we are attracted to eachother like crazy but how do I get hiim to try new things with me?

I'm not sure exactly how to ask/or demand. I told hiim my fantasy and he said he'd try but then he says he wont. I enjoy getting hiit and such, the tieing up thing, but when I ask hiim he says no. I mean he'll pull hair bite and choke but wont hiit me. Isn't that weird? How do I get hiim to play my game?

I do what he wants but how do I get hiim to get over thiis not hitting me during sex thing. I honestly can't feel it much, I've slammed my head into a bedside and didn't feel it.

I just don't want our sex to get boring and what it seems like is sooner or later it will....

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Sweet, being blindfolded, tied up, is sexy, it's the un-known, being hit is "kinky" a slap across the face, hightening the sexual moment, a shock but nice...

But, I would say he has morals and values, happy to do "different things like anal, tying you up" but to hit a woman is against his thoughts, full stop.

I can't see that you will win on that one, so why not look at all other fantasies that you have and go with those.

A guy who "likes" to hit a woman whilst having sex, is generally into a whole lot of other things too..

If he can satisfy most of your needs, let that one go.

If can't satisfy any of your needs, your with the wrong partner.

Sounds to me, that it's just one thing your not happy about not receiving.... compromise, that's what relationships are about...

CW

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WildChild

I agree wiuth CW and this is all the more reason to wait rather than trying to have a child with him.

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LanaBear

Sensory deprivation during sex is awesome, but being hit, I can't imagine so much.

Like CW said, let go of that one... I think he is being rather respectable in saying no.

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