women and views on oral sex

**Miya** · 10-05-2009 05:40 AM

As far as oral is concerned though I love giving it to my husband. I do a combination of mouth and hand action though when I first started I got the "sore jaw syndrome"

that others describe. When I finally learned how to avoid that it was wonderful. I'm really not sure why it grosses other women out yet they love to receive it. (perhaps because it also the exit point for urine but then if/when they go down on us, they're faced with a similar thing).. To me it's fantastic and while I may be in the minority, I love it when my DH cums from my oral pleasuring.

**2HOT4U** · 10-13-2009 03:36 PM

I still do not enjoy giving oral to men, just can not seem to find a way to enjoy it but find myself wanting, and looking for women to do that with, is there something wrong with me? I enjoy sex with a man, nothing replaces the feeling of a mans hard member inside of me but a man licking me is somewhat enjoyable but nothing compared to a woman doing that to me or even me doing that to her, I even love that! I was scared the first time I tried it so she went down on me first and within moments I was grabbing her head pushing her head down it felt amazing and I went down on her and found that amazing also!!

**Explorer44** · 10-13-2009 09:29 PM

My view on oral?

Well, usually looking up at his face, actually, watching him watch me.

hehehehheehe

**WildChild** · 10-13-2009 10:18 PM

I love giving and recieving, although not at the same time. Can't focus then. Never had any real interest in or thoughts of doing it with another woman although I've been proposistioned a few times.

**danceintx** · 10-13-2009 10:48 PM

I have never been with a woman, but I love giving my bf head. I guess I like it so much only because he likes it so much and I like making him happy.

**renee69** · 10-13-2009 11:25 PM

yuck!!!!!!!!!!!!

**ItsASecret** · 10-14-2009 12:26 AM

I have mixed feelings about giving and receiving. There are times when I really want to give him oral but other days I would prefer not to at all. He knows that though and if I am not in the mood he tries not to get worked up about wanting it so badly. However if he is obviously aching for it I will do it to show that I still care about his wants even if I may not exactly enjoy doing it at that particular time.

Same applies to me receiving oral. Some days it is a fantastic feeling, other days I really do not want it. I do not love it enough to ask for it but if he just starts to go at it I will not be stopping him. On the other hand, he could go down on me all day and love every minute of it.

As for me giving or receiving oral to/from a woman...maybe. I do not see myself engaging in things like that unless I was heavily under the influence of alcohol. And since I rarely drink I think I can safely say that I will likely never have an experience with another woman.

**crazyone81** · 10-14-2009 10:29 AM

2hot4u i know how you feel. I never thought I would be with a woman and I did regret it for awhile because I come from a very conservative background. I now realized that you just have to do what feels good and not worry about it. I do have a boyfriend and he does know about me with my roomate. I never even saw her like that but after one night of alcohol it changed my views on women. It was the best oral I have ever recieved and I to like giving it! She now demands it which I love because I like to be submissive in bed. I can't help but want my soriority girls now

. I did not want to be different but what others don't know doesn't hurt them and it's of course a secret between me and my roomie! I also really really enjoy it when she spanks me idk why I just do. I do like giving a woman oral much more than I like giving a man. We are just alot more sensual and loving I guess. And my roomate definitly knows how to seduce me as another woman!

**Miya** · 10-14-2009 10:42 AM

crazyone81:
Just an observation, but you're cheating on your bf. How would you feel if he were having a sexual fling with another guy or girl and you happened to find out about it?
Just because you're having sex with another woman doesn't mean it's more righteous than with a member of the opposite sex. If you find you enjoy women so much, why not just tell him so he's not blindsided one day from you or another jealous lover?

**soleman** · 10-14-2009 11:29 AM

Originally Posted by Miya

crazyone81:
Just an observation, but you're cheating on your bf. How would you feel if he were having a sexual fling with another guy or girl and you happened to find out about it?
Just because you're having sex with another woman doesn't mean it's more righteous than with a member of the opposite sex. If you find you enjoy women so much, why not just tell him so he's not blindsided one day from you or another jealous lover?

As a guy, I totally agree with Miya. Personally I wouldn't have a problem if my wife felt the need to have fun with another woman, but I would well want to know about it. Heck, I'd probably quite like to be involved in some way, even just observing!
I think it wouldn't bother me if I felt sure that she was doing it for sexual gratification (after all I'm not jealous of her masturbating) and she wasn't actually in love with the other woman.
Crazyone, you say your bf knows about your roommate. Does he know exactly what goes on? If he does, does it turn him on, has he expressed an interest in maybe getting involved? If not, maybe he doesn't actually like what you do but he is afraid to say it for fear of losing you.
It's ok to have fun, but not if it's behind your partner's back or if it's hurting his feelings.

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