Thread: women and views on oral sex

Originally Posted by Kallygirlie

I can tell you the reason I may have felt so good is women know what we like right. Guys know what they think or been told but another women knows how she likes it done so thats how she does it.

I'd have to disagree completely. I've showed a lot of women a lot of things that they never knew about or ever thought would be pleasurable.

In addition - every woman is different....one thing one woman may like could not feel good or even be a complete turn off to another.

Take G-spot stimulation for example...some like it, some don't.

Originally Posted by Miya

crazyone81:
Just an observation, but you're cheating on your bf.

I was just thinking that.

Yes I do understand to some that it may be cheating, but it is through his consent and he joins in about half of the time which I forgot to mention, my apology. He enjoys it alot and it definitly turns him on. I'm not in love with her and have no emotional attachment to her and I don't consider myself bi or lesbian just because I don't want that "label" that's why I keep it between jenny, my boyfriend and I. I did cry and was really confused about it and I still am somewhat ashamed of it because I don't feel like it's "normal" to do these kinds of things. I'm not a tramp by any means I haven't only been with two men and one woman(my roomate Jenny). I just don't want to be judged as I'm cheating on him or I'm a lesbian but I guess that is somewhat reality. I honestly have cried for the past two months off and on so much just confused and I don't feel like it's morally right to be with a woman and it really does suck that you have to hide such a thing. I hope that y'all don't judge me as some tramp cheating on my bf, he does know and he enjoys it also. I'm so confused

If he enjoys it, you enjoy it, "jenny" enjoys it - GREAT! Have fun, keep making many of us jealous.

Any sex that isn't directed at getting pregnant is done for fun. Be happy that you find more things fun than most people.

Absolutely, your BF is a lucky guy Crazyone, there's nothing wrong with what you do if he knows about it - and I don't think you are a lesbian, but even if you were, what's wrong with that?
Probably you are a bit bi, aren't we all to some extent? I'm straight but I've had my share of dreams involving guys, of course when I wake up I feel quite disturbed but it just shows that our subconscious is sexually much richer than our conscious everyday self.
Well done for acting out your fantasies instead of bottling them up, which is never a good thing.

Originally Posted by crazyone81

I honestly have cried for the past two months off and on so much just confused and I don't feel like it's morally right to be with a woman and it really does suck that you have to hide such a thing. I hope that y'all don't judge me as some tramp cheating on my bf, he does know and he enjoys it also. I'm so confused

No judging - what you do is your own business and is of no consequence to us.

Just bringing some things to your attention.