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    A MAN'S PERSPECTIVE......

    I have to say first, what's the deal with the need for the shots of booze? Are you a college sorority girl at some bar looking at Mr. Fraternity hunk hoping to score? Or a woman deeply in love with a man, your life partner who would probably take a bullet for you and your baby?

    Who cares what other "people" or "society" or whatever has labled this act of intimacy between two people that love each other. Stop being so vain and easily influenced by others.

    Focus on the fact that this is the man that you love and you are doing something for him that will bring him incredible pleasure and you pleasure by doing something so amazing.

    Does he ever perform cunnilingus on you? Do you think he gives a rip what others think about that? If he does, then you both need counseling to understand and realize that NOTHING between two loving, consenting adults is wrong or unacceptable as long as both parties agree and it is done in a loving way.

    A HUGE part of intimacy is giving pleasure to the other party while getting pleasure yourself from doing so.

    Forget what others think, say, do, act, whatever.

    This is between you and him.

    As for technique, there are as many different techniques as there are women. So I'd advise you to discuss it with your partner and ASK him what feels good. If he doesn't know, then ask him while you're doing it. Make mental notes of his facial expressions and moans, etc.

    Like most of the others, I agree with be careful about your TEETH.

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    We've had a bunch of threads on this with some pretty detailed info, why not do a search?
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    Hi All.. it's been a little minute since I've been on the site!

    lady lav--great advice! I have to admit, i have never swallowed! He's cum in my mouth before, but I spit. I think i just have to get used to the taste and texture...b/c when it's been in my mouth, i'm darn near gagging while i'm going to spit! As far as deep throating, I'm pretty much like you...I can't put it all the way in my throat or anything, but when I put it as far as it can go, i notice he shivers and ohhs and ahhs! So i definitely know he's enjoying that
    Heehee...Yes! I was guilty of the teeth a little bit! EEK! But like some have said, it's a learning process!

    CW--I have no problem personally with Miya or Theresa, I was just addressing something that they said in their responses. I respect the fact that you're a monitor, but i will also have to respectfully agree to disagree with you--in no way was I the one judging. What I responded with was in no way worse than what was said to me...saying it's a "western" thing is not judging me, being that I am from the USA?! That's like saying..."all blondes are airheads" we all know that's definitely not true, but that sure is judging! So if you feel like you need to ban people from this site for defending themselves or responding to being called something they're not, then I honestly think that is judging in itself, unfortunately.

    Thanks again guys for the tips!!!!

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