Thread: Ladies question about penis size issues when having sex?

Originally Posted by pocari

I have the same thing, I am 5 feet 2 inch tall. and it hurts everytime my bf do the deed (and yes, his penis is big). and ended up having some kind of urinary tract infection after some frequent sex. idk, is it cuz of the size or not... still a mystery for me..

It is mostly due to the high frequency of the deed. Your organ gets irritated and thus gets more susceptible to infection. You have to make sure you have washed both "holes" prior to the "deed". Use only one hand for that V, and the other hand for the A when you wash. Direction in washing should be from the top of your vagina, down, not the other way around. Also, remember to ask your other half to brush his teeth thouroughly before giving you oral. The tongue harbors a lot of bacteria that could harm your precious. Likewise, make sure that you pee after the intercourse, and then wash yourself.

Other than that, it must be other factors such as pH imbalance, kidney issues (I had a kidney stone before, and pH is a factor). Also, my body had to adjust its pH with my partner. Hope this helps.

Originally Posted by WildChild

LOL absolutely. I'd rather have a caring man who wants to share pleasure than one who relies on size anyday.

But ladies, does size really matter? To some extent, I have to be honest - it does to me.

Originally Posted by caterpillar79

It is mostly due to the high frequency of the deed. Your organ gets irritated and thus gets more susceptible to infection. You have to make sure you have washed both "holes" prior to the "deed". Use only one hand for that V, and the other hand for the A when you wash. Direction in washing should be from the top of your vagina, down, not the other way around. Also, remember to ask your other half to brush his teeth thouroughly before giving you oral. The tongue harbors a lot of bacteria that could harm your precious. Likewise, make sure that you pee after the intercourse, and then wash yourself.

Other than that, it must be other factors such as pH imbalance, kidney issues (I had a kidney stone before, and pH is a factor). Also, my body had to adjust its pH with my partner. Hope this helps.

yeah i think so. Thanks for posting, Caterpillar! so We shouldnt do that very often in a short period of time, n yeah i think my V was too tired so in the end it hurt when I peed. I was afraid I had UTI as I never had b4 in my life. but now its gettingbetter after a month.. abstinence also... I'll wait til Im fully recover from this.

Originally Posted by pocari

yeah i think so. Thanks for posting, Caterpillar! so We shouldn't do that very often in a short period of time, n yeah i think my V was too tired so in the end it hurt when I peed. I was afraid I had UTI as I never had b4 in my life. but now its getting better after a month.. abstinence also... I'll wait til Im fully recover from this.

Glad it helps! But if you are experiencing discomfort (i.e. pain during urination, burning sensation, urgency/frequency issues with peeing), go to a urologist and get checked. You might need to have a urine culture. UTI can be life-threatening, so don't leave it to the air, wait for a month till it clears up. You need antibiotics to kill the bacteria. DON'T DELAY!

yes right after that day of frequent sex I had the experience of burning sensation when urinating, well I dont know what burning feels like, but when I pee, it seemed I need to pee more to end it, but actually no more urine and that made it hurt. I was panic like crazy I took cranberry pills and drank water like crazy but now I dont take it anymore cuz I think I'm okay, no more hurt when I pee... It's been a month now and I think it's getting better... do you think it can get better by nature?

I read you had UTI before, so are you fine now?

haha, size does matter but what if too big? which one you prefer? I am thinking... if it's too big... I will be a paranoid. haha. but I hope my V can adjust his P... -_-"

cheers