youknowyouloveme

i recently moved out of town and my boyfriends coming to visit me. I wont see him again until next june. Unfortunately, he's visiting while im on my period. is there a way for me to have sex with him without it being messy, and possibly without him knowing?

Loveshoes

Unfortunately, no! That's just the way it is...you can try all kinds of other things without having intercourse in the vagina...then you can at least keep a tamp in and not have to worry about that. Otherwise, get out your towels and get ready for showers. Or heck, just do it in the shower...then you don't have to get anything dirty.

OhThereYouAre

Meh - I'm a guy....I don't mind intercourse while she's on her period.

It certainly doesn't feel as good with blood in there, but oh well. It's better than nothing.

Oral, definitely not as pleasant but hey, she's worth it.

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LILOLUX

Honestly, guys do not like having sexual intercourse when their ladies are having their period. And importantly, the menstrual blood is very dirty from our body so i guess its best you gotta skip vaginal intercourse.

sourpuss

What? Dirty? I don't think so. And honestly, I've never had a boyfriend that has really minded. Like OTYA said, it's better than nothing.
No one should be grossed out about what comes out of their body. It's your body, it's totally normal. And a woman's period is probably the least offensive of all the things our body puts out.

It shouldn't be that big of a deal.

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LanaBear

Really? I'd be curious to know where you got that information. I, for one, have never heard of that. Dirty? I don't really think so...

I've also never heard of a guy really caring one way or another. At least those in long term relationships.

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CHANDLERS WISH

"Some guys LILOLUX" but most don't care seriously... I'm not sure if this is your thoughts or that of you man, but I'd be curious to know, just out of interest

OP... There is only one way to cheat, continue your birth control packet and skip the sugar pills so you miss a period completely.

I wouldn't recommend this to be a habit but it doesn't hurt once in a while, I've done it, you may have a bit of cramping, a tad of spotting even but you won't have your periods....

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