NDNICEGUY

I have a question, I met a woman who was recently divorced like me, went out a few times and things seemed to click. It was a pleasure to meet a woman who enjoyed sex, was not afraid to speak her mind, is is very honest and forward, kind of caught me off guard at first. I am not complaining but when we are together on weekends we spend the whole day having sex and this past weekend she got upset with me because after several hours and I had 4 orgasms she had several also my "friend" was not coming to attention like she hoped and she still wanted more. I am worried that I will not be able to satisfy her sexually the way she seems to want, what do I do? I have never met a woman who is like this and it kind of scares me a little bit.

WildChild

I've been that way pretty much since I started having sex but would never get upset over something like that. That's silly. You aren't a machine. Sounds like she has a
satiety problem. Is she actually cumming, can you feel her contractions?
You can try more foreplay an talking with her or getting her off by hand a couple times before you start. If she is actually cumming, then even if she is willing to and could handle more she should be able to adjust to you. If she can't then this may not work. What is she going to do when she gets older and the men her age are doing really good to handle twice?

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LanaBear

Wow - you've gone from one end of the spectrum to the other, huh? I'm glad you are finally enjoying yourself a bit.

But, I think that sucks that she would get mad about something like that. Really after 4 times, I wouldn't be surprised, that's considerable stamina in my mind.

I agree with WC too, try turning up the foreplay a little bit, get her off a few more times via other methods before you dive in for yours...

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Hopeless Dork

As long as you are giving her sexual attention, emotional attention and just good old fashion affection -- I don't think you have much to worry about. Unless she is clueless on how the male body works she will understand that you need some recovery time and get less bothered by it.

If you were unable to get it to attention , perhaps she felt like you were disinterested or turned off even though you were just TIRED. Its a common misconception that can lead a woman to becoming upset. Be sure to assure her that she's such a sexy thing you need some in -between time to keep up.

Give lots of manual and oral, if her drive is extremely high and she's multi orgasmic -- give her an extended foreplay session -- maybe even introduce a toy that you think might be sexy to watch her play with, or for you to use on her etc. Lots of oral, manual, and possibly even a toy... before, during and after can extend her time...

But she will have to learn to be reasonable and develop some understanding of refraction time.

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