I just don't understand....(Masturbating) - Page 2

**PJhavinfunagain** · 09-30-2009, 12:08 AM

Also it isn't just about insertion. There are so many nerves in the clitoris and arround the vaginal lips. Set the mood for yourself, get some lube till you figure out how to get yourself wet.

Definetly keep trying with your fingers. Little tip.... I found it better when learning to have clipped clean fingernails. You do not want to injure anything down there. My Dh has also learned to do this if he want's his hands on me.

**LanaBear** · 09-30-2009, 12:18 AM

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Originally Posted by Goodgirl93

Thanx Lana. You always have a way to make these problems easier for me.

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Awwww - you're welcome! You'll get there eventually.

**Miya** · 09-30-2009, 06:31 AM

Lana is wonderful as always and Tex and PJ are correct too my dear.

Especially if you're using an object (or even fingers for that matter) stimulate your lips and clitoris before trying to go in and make sure to use plenty of lubrication as you do. Also, as Lana mentioned one you're "in" so to speak stop and give your body time to adjust. Do it slowly and after a while the pain will ease though it will take more than a few times most certainly. But it will and then oohhhh my!

**Tex** · 09-30-2009, 10:15 AM

Gg, don't make the mistake that some guys make by jamming something up in there, smacking it around for two minutes, and then wondering why nothing exciting is happening.

**Miya** · 09-30-2009, 10:33 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Tex

Gg, don't make the mistake that some guys make by jamming something up in there, smacking it around for two minutes, and then wondering why nothing exciting is happening.

haha this one has me laughing irl.

**Goodgirl93** · 09-30-2009, 11:56 AM

Tex-HA! That made me giggle a bit. Lol but you have a point.I'm not going to expect wonders the first time I do this tho,cause in a way I'm just like a virgin guy,I don't what to do with my object.its a work in progress. Haha

So keep the object in for a little while? I can do that. Maybe thats why it was so uncompfortable at first.because I didn't wait,I just....went at it.no pleasure at all! I'll use my fingers first though to try and figure out more of what gives me pleasure.So I better get to cutting my finger nails just like pjhavinfunagain said.lol

And as for Mrs. LanaBear.....you are very welcome.

you've helped me ever since I signed up.You've been so amazing,even when I wrote my first post(wich I now regret),you could have been rude and told me I'm stupid for thinking such a thing....instead,you supported me %100.

**Isabellacat** · 09-30-2009, 06:23 PM

Bottom of an electric toothbrush?? Maybe you should find something else that has a better shape cos that sounds like it hurts.Did you use any kind of lube??? Be patient my dear. I remember when I was younger I tried using a carrot and could'nt figure out how to insert it cos it hurt.I just ended up using my fingers and figured out how to use my lipstick case too(but looking back I do remember that was uncomfortable at times),but I think fingers are the best until you can find a dildo/vibrator.

**Goodgirl93** · 09-30-2009, 06:49 PM

Well the bottom part of the toothbrush is completely round and smooth so it doesn hurt.but I think I need to use my fingers first to "explore"

**Isabellacat** · 09-30-2009, 07:38 PM

Just get some lube or vaseline.

**CHANDLERS WISH** · 09-30-2009, 08:25 PM

Yeah I know, I'm being a mum.

1) Good idea - vibrates, is not too thin, not too think - just right haha.

2) Germs/Bacteria - Wash it thorougly with hot water (no soap) before hand...it sits outside on your basin overnight sweet.

3) The girls/guys have a good point in as much as a "dildo" is what you would maybe experiement with "after" you've first explored yourself and fingers are more in-tune with a man's body part in reality than something that vibrates, why God didn't think of a vibrating penis when he created man I have no idea?

CW

09-30-2009, 12:08 AM	#11
PJhavinfunagain Silver Contributor 100+ Posts Join Date: Aug 2009 Location: upper midwest Posts: 214	Also it isn't just about insertion. There are so many nerves in the clitoris and arround the vaginal lips. Set the mood for yourself, get some lube till you figure out how to get yourself wet. Definetly keep trying with your fingers. Little tip.... I found it better when learning to have clipped clean fingernails. You do not want to injure anything down there. My Dh has also learned to do this if he want's his hands on me. __________________ "When one door closes, another opens. But we often look so regretfully upon the closed door that we don't see the one that has opened for us." Helen Keller

09-30-2009, 06:31 AM	#13
Miya Gold Contributor 500+ Posts Join Date: Aug 2009 Location: Born in Japan, now in Northern Virginia Posts: 589 Blog Entries: 3	Lana is wonderful as always and Tex and PJ are correct too my dear. Especially if you're using an object (or even fingers for that matter) stimulate your lips and clitoris before trying to go in and make sure to use plenty of lubrication as you do. Also, as Lana mentioned one you're "in" so to speak stop and give your body time to adjust. Do it slowly and after a while the pain will ease though it will take more than a few times most certainly. But it will and then oohhhh my! __________________ Do not dwell in the past, do not dream of the future, concentrate the mind on the present moment. -Lord Buddha

09-30-2009, 08:25 PM	#20
CHANDLERS WISH WH Moderator Join Date: Mar 2008 Location: Australia Posts: 9,924 Blog Entries: 7	Yeah I know, I'm being a mum. 1) Good idea - vibrates, is not too thin, not too think - just right haha. 2) Germs/Bacteria - Wash it thorougly with hot water (no soap) before hand...it sits outside on your basin overnight sweet. 3) The girls/guys have a good point in as much as a "dildo" is what you would maybe experiement with "after" you've first explored yourself and fingers are more in-tune with a man's body part in reality than something that vibrates, why God didn't think of a vibrating penis when he created man I have no idea? CW __________________ Do we not realise that in order to find a soul It doesn't happen over night if truth were to be told Like everything in life that's hard to achieve you must believe! Register! \| Rules/FAQ \| Contact Mod

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09-30-2009, 10:15 AM	#14
Tex Gold Contributor 500+ Posts $Tex's Avatar$ Join Date: Sep 2009 Posts: 1,122	Gg, don't make the mistake that some guys make by jamming something up in there, smacking it around for two minutes, and then wondering why nothing exciting is happening.

09-30-2009, 11:56 AM	#16
Goodgirl93 Gold Contributor 500+ Posts Join Date: Sep 2009 Posts: 882	Tex-HA! That made me giggle a bit. Lol but you have a point.I'm not going to expect wonders the first time I do this tho,cause in a way I'm just like a virgin guy,I don't what to do with my object.its a work in progress. Haha So keep the object in for a little while? I can do that. Maybe thats why it was so uncompfortable at first.because I didn't wait,I just....went at it.no pleasure at all! I'll use my fingers first though to try and figure out more of what gives me pleasure.So I better get to cutting my finger nails just like pjhavinfunagain said.lol And as for Mrs. LanaBear.....you are very welcome. you've helped me ever since I signed up.You've been so amazing,even when I wrote my first post(wich I now regret),you could have been rude and told me I'm stupid for thinking such a thing....instead,you supported me %100.

09-30-2009, 06:23 PM	#17
Isabellacat Gold Contributor 500+ Posts Space Invaders Champion! Join Date: May 2009 Location: SF Bay Area Posts: 782	Bottom of an electric toothbrush?? Maybe you should find something else that has a better shape cos that sounds like it hurts.Did you use any kind of lube??? Be patient my dear. I remember when I was younger I tried using a carrot and could'nt figure out how to insert it cos it hurt.I just ended up using my fingers and figured out how to use my lipstick case too(but looking back I do remember that was uncomfortable at times),but I think fingers are the best until you can find a dildo/vibrator.

09-30-2009, 06:49 PM	#18
Goodgirl93 Gold Contributor 500+ Posts Join Date: Sep 2009 Posts: 882	Well the bottom part of the toothbrush is completely round and smooth so it doesn hurt.but I think I need to use my fingers first to "explore"

09-30-2009, 07:38 PM	#19
Isabellacat Gold Contributor 500+ Posts Space Invaders Champion! Join Date: May 2009 Location: SF Bay Area Posts: 782	Just get some lube or vaseline.