Muffin

I was just wondering, what was/is your best orgasm like? Opinions? The reason I'm wondering is, I have had orgasms while mastubating and I've been told it's a cliteral orgasm. and it feels great, but... it doesn't last too long, it's not super intense (usually) In fact, building up to it feels more intense than acctually acheiving it for me.

In movies and books and stuff (I don't know about porn) they make it seem like the amazing aweinspiring thing. Is it?

I've read that men and women experiance it differently... Men have fast intense orgasms, and women have less intense but long orgasms.... so why does it seem so short for me when I masturbate?

OhThereYouAre

How long is short? And are you talking about the super tingly feeling or the contractions, or the length of both together?

If that's the only type of orgasm you've had, how can you measure whether it is intense or not?

Meh - its different for everyone. I've read that woman's orgasms supposedly last longer, but again - they don't expound on exactly what they are timing.

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Muffin

I basing it on what I've experience verses what I've been told to expect or read about. That why i brought up the movies or books.

The tingly feeling leading up to it can get pretty intense (as far as I'm conserned, i don't know how to compare it to others feelings, because as you said it's they only thing I've felt), the pulsing afterwards is great, but i would like it to be stronger, and to last longer than like... 10 seconds....

Muffin

Basicaaly, many places describe a women's orgasm as an explosion! The time it last varies. But... they say you can feel it through your whole body, I just get a little pulseing at the surface. And while I do feel very relaxed, in fact it has helped me sleep on a number of occassions, I don't feel... I don't know, fully satisfied... or at least, as satisfied as I think I can be.

WildChild

This is like asking someone to describe a taste or smell. Really hard to do. Have to think about this.

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OhThereYouAre

If you don't feel fully satisfied, do it again.

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'If you think you can or you can't, you're probably right..."

"It is discouraging how many people are shocked by honesty and how few by deceit..."

"People who lack the sense to question Big Lies always end up in deep trouble..."

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"Build the life you want and then find someone to share it with, someone who fits where you are and where you are going..."

SinisterUrge

You've already discovered that the build-up is your favorite part, now you need to work on what men sometimes call "fighting the tide" or keeping yourself on the orgasm event horizon.

Tantrists have a very long history of using very specific breathing patterns, and some people use a metronome or other steady cadence device (ticking watch, CD of a steady heart or drumbeat etc etc). The basic theory is that if you don't speed-up you delay the inevitable. Some people spend years of their lives attempting to reach an indefinite hold (which much like Kung-Fu; You can never reach perfection but still you practice). The longer the hold, the better the eventual orgasm (same theory as hatha yoga or marathon running; the longer you work the better you feel when you're done)

Steph33

In the right position(s) I can cum 3-4 times, and the 3rd and 4th seem to get more intense though aren't 2 seconds apart. My b/f loves laying on his back and me lowering myself on him to give me oral. That was something past guys didn't care for. But I "assist" in it and that is probably my best was to cum multiple times. I get major loud and into it, he came sometimes ejaculate from the pleasure he gets "doing his thing" while hearing me and my reaction. During that 4th one I often think to myself "I'm never letting out alone where there are other women or out of my sight", laugh.

tarametz

The most intense orgasms are G-spot orgasms. Many women and men, though, do not know how to find the G-spot...it is actually quite easy with a toy or with a partner. With a partner, you will want to lay on your back and have them stick one or two fingers in the vagina. They will then do the "come here" motion with their fingers and they should be hitting your g-spot. You will know it right away because it is very sensitive, but it also feels like you have to pee (because it is on the back side of the urethra). If that makes you uncomfortable, try it with a g-spot toy first...check them out at Tara Metz - Your Independent Passion Parties® Consultant. Then, once you have a g-spot orgasm you will know what all the hype is about...And the feeling like you have to pee gets better with practice!

Goodgirl93

Well when I first started masturbating...(2 years ago)my orgasms wud only last maybe 4 seconds.but now they last like 10-15 seconds.I guess overtime they get more intense.also if you are about to orgasm,stop.wait a few sconds then start again.almost let yourself orgasm.but don't.hold out a few times and you'l find that the orgasm are very intense.