A question for the ladies.

**annasthasia** · 10-05-2009 05:19 PM

Good points have been made here... I have some information that maybe can help.

I have found that when I am with a new partner, it takes me time to be able to "let go". There are all kinds of reasons... Here are some of them...

- After a dry spell, I find it difficult to "let go" with a new partner. I associate the ability to orgasm in "FULL VIEW" of my partner is an intimate issue. Therefore, I associate achieving orgasm with my partner as intimacy.

- Also, when I am not in a relashionship, of course, masturbating to at least get relief from the itch you cannot scratch helps, but then, one becomes more "isolated" from having a partner... Yes, stoping masturbation should help.

- You need to seduce her mind. Take her to a restaurant, flirt with her and just make her ache with desire... Once you get home... TAKE YOUR TIME... Pay attention to her "weak spots" places where you get shivers. Gently stroking my neck all the way down to my lower back makes me melt... litterally... Or... rubbing my feet and slowly work your way up the legs and tease and carress before the humping starts... I cannot explain why this works but it does...

- I find this really really works... Allow her to "touch" herself when you are inside her. Depending on how flexible you are, sort of squat in between her legs and let her touch herself while you are slowly going inside of her... Apparently, the view is HOT for a man...

Just trying to give frank advice. I am not trying to do dirty talk.

This is MY problem... When I am really able to let go with my partner and I truly feel completely accepted, warts and all... That is when it happens... The orgasm is soooo intense that this hot liquid comes out of nowhere and it is not urine. When this happens it embarrasses me but apparently it is awsome for a man to feel this hot liquid "fall" down on his penis... This to me is embarrassing but when this happens the man in my life felt like he had finally won the biggest prize...

Anyway...

Bye for now!

**WildChild** · 10-05-2009 06:24 PM

You're describing a Gspot orgasm and some people work really hard at trying to get there!

**LanaBear** · 10-05-2009 07:25 PM

Originally Posted by annasthasia

The orgasm is soooo intense that this hot liquid comes out of nowhere and it is not urine. When this happens it embarrasses me but apparently it is awsome for a man to feel this hot liquid "fall" down on his penis... This to me is embarrassing but when this happens the man in my life felt like he had finally won the biggest prize...

Don't be embarrassed by this! There are many many women who wish they could accomplish this. I finally can, but it took a lot of work, lol, but yes he does enjoy it too. The coveted g-spot orgasm.

**Youngbuck** · 10-05-2009 09:54 PM

She loves being touched anywhere,her skin is really sensetive..I run my hands around starting from the anus and up towards the spine and she gets shivers.Im also good at massages and she loves recieving foot massage from me.

Our 4 months is coming up im going to hold up on sex and just keep teasing her verbally because she gets aroused by dirty talk..We'll go to dinner and have some wine.She likes man in button up shirts so ill dress the way she likes it. I got some good ideas..Shes already dying from holdin off masturbation and its only day one!

Sometimes she releases those hot juices you are talkin about when shes on top of me and i think its the hottest thing ever when you feel that warmness on your penis.I think she'll be able to do it more now that shes holding off masturbation.

**WildChild** · 10-05-2009 10:09 PM

Get on Amazon or someplace and get the Book, One Hour Orgasm, they have fairly detailed instructions for "doing" either sex for high level of arousal and to orgasm just using your hands and mood and build up. Sounds like it would fit right in with the direction you are going.

**ThexMrs** · 10-06-2009 01:01 AM

Im her first and we've been doing it for 2 months for almost everyday,3-5 times a day now and I just can't get her to orgasm at all.She orgasmed once by oral after about 20 minutes of breakin my jaw. Never through intercourse though.

The thing is she has a very very high sex drive and she has masturbated daily for years,even multiple times daily.(red-heads are freaks!) I asked her,when you do it yourself how long does it take you to orgasm?She said anywhere from within a minute to 5 mins..And im sitting there wow we've been going for hours and I cant get you once?!

1. I'm the same way still... Only one man out of seven has made me orgasm and it was through oral. I've never had an orgasm through intercourse and you can believe it sucks just as much for as it does for you.

2. Again, I'm the same way. I masturbate multiple times a day and can get off from anywhere between 1 minute to 45 minutes. It just depends.

You find an answer, let me know.

**GlitterAndStuds** · 10-06-2009 09:56 AM

Originally Posted by LanaBear

Don't be embarrassed by this! There are many many women who wish they could accomplish this. I finally can, but it took a lot of work, lol, but yes he does enjoy it too. The coveted g-spot orgasm.

Oh I'm one of those people who wishes I could do that! I mean I'm glad I don't in some ways, but still.... I'd love to do it just once. haha

**GlitterAndStuds** · 10-06-2009 09:58 AM

And regarding the masturbation thing, I'll agree with everyone else on that one. I like to do that as much as the next person, but it makes it a lot more difficult for my boyfriend to get me off later. Well not more difficult so much as it takes a lot longer. Like if I masturbate just once during the day (I go for the clitoral way as well)... that one time extends the time he spends later by like 10 minutes. So I put off doing it a lot.

**LanaBear** · 10-06-2009 10:20 AM

Originally Posted by GlitterAndStuds

Oh I'm one of those people who wishes I could do that! I mean I'm glad I don't in some ways, but still.... I'd love to do it just once. haha

There's no way I could do it every time, so I guess I have some control over it. It has to be direct g-spot stimulation for me, on rare occasions clit stimulation will do it. But it's worth it.

Practice makes perfect!

**Theresa** · 10-06-2009 10:29 AM

Originally Posted by GlitterAndStuds

Oh I'm one of those people who wishes I could do that! I mean I'm glad I don't in some ways, but still.... I'd love to do it just once. haha

I wish I could too. I have tried but I am thinking that a partner would help the situation.

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