It it unusual for a girl to masturbate a lot

girlLover · 10-06-2009, 04:55 PM

I am between lovers. I miss my girlfriend who broke up with me and is with another lover now after a year together. Now I masturbate a lot, sometimes twice a day but even after orgasm I still am really really missing her and feel sad. I thought it would be like other times, but it has been several months. She was my first long time sexual relationship with another girl. I don't feel interested in anyone else, exspecially boys. Is this normal? It is so different than how I felt after other relationships broke up.

**WildChild** · 10-06-2009, 07:06 PM

Perhaps you were more emotionally invested in this relationship? Or are there other areas of your life that don't feel like they are working out, so that this bothers you more?
Give yourself some down time but also find positive ways to stay busy and engaged in life, Get out with freinds, work on hobbies, learn some thing new.

2HOT4U · 10-13-2009, 02:24 PM

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Originally Posted by girlLover

I am between lovers. I miss my girlfriend who broke up with me and is with another lover now after a year together. Now I masturbate a lot, sometimes twice a day but even after orgasm I still am really really missing her and feel sad. I thought it would be like other times, but it has been several months. She was my first long time sexual relationship with another girl. I don't feel interested in anyone else, exspecially boys. Is this normal? It is so different than how I felt after other relationships broke up.

I am divorced now and I masturbate almost every day and often 2-3 times, I knew I had a high sex drive but seems that it has increased, i have been thinking about things and it kind of scares me what I want to try.

**Tex** · 10-13-2009, 02:36 PM

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Originally Posted by 2HOT4U

kind of scares me what I want to try.

Why be scared of your desires?

2HOT4U · 10-13-2009, 02:48 PM

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Originally Posted by Tex

Why be scared of your desires?

it seems that my desires have changed, never used to masturbate often, never wanted oral sex with another woman or some of the other things I have done now, makes me wonder what has changed

**Tex** · 10-13-2009, 02:58 PM

Maybe you lost some inhibition. Sounds like fun. Enjoy!

2HOT4U · 10-13-2009, 03:19 PM

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Originally Posted by Tex

Maybe you lost some inhibition. Sounds like fun. Enjoy!

I think that would be and understatement, I used to be kind of shy and reserved now it is a complet 180. the thought of performing oral on another woman to me was gross, wrong, disgusting and now I find myself wanting it again and again. Porn to me was wrong, now I have watched some, and even done things that before I only saw in those types of movies. I have friends who wont associate with me anymore cuz they think I have become a basically, they did not say it that way but I konw that is what they think and to a point they are right

**Tex** · 10-13-2009, 03:33 PM

That's sad that some won't associate with you anymore, but if they can't accept you for who you are, then you don't need people like that as friends.

Now go and find someone to ride your face.

**nightqueen** · 10-13-2009, 04:21 PM

Totally normal. Do what feels good.

**PJhavinfunagain** · 10-13-2009, 05:03 PM

As long as you are not putting yourself in physical danger. Have fun and yes do what feels good!

I agree inhibitions can change/lessen as we age. Yeehaw!!!

10-06-2009, 04:55 PM	#1
girlLover Junior Member Join Date: Oct 2009 Posts: 2	It it unusual for a girl to masturbate a lot I am between lovers. I miss my girlfriend who broke up with me and is with another lover now after a year together. Now I masturbate a lot, sometimes twice a day but even after orgasm I still am really really missing her and feel sad. I thought it would be like other times, but it has been several months. She was my first long time sexual relationship with another girl. I don't feel interested in anyone else, exspecially boys. Is this normal? It is so different than how I felt after other relationships broke up.

10-06-2009, 07:06 PM	#2
WildChild WH Moderator Join Date: Sep 2008 Location: Western USA Posts: 8,699 Blog Entries: 6	Perhaps you were more emotionally invested in this relationship? Or are there other areas of your life that don't feel like they are working out, so that this bothers you more? Give yourself some down time but also find positive ways to stay busy and engaged in life, Get out with freinds, work on hobbies, learn some thing new. __________________ We can only learn to love by loving. Iris Mudoch, British writer

10-13-2009, 05:03 PM	#10
PJhavinfunagain Silver Contributor 100+ Posts Join Date: Aug 2009 Location: upper midwest Posts: 424	As long as you are not putting yourself in physical danger. Have fun and yes do what feels good! I agree inhibitions can change/lessen as we age. Yeehaw!!! __________________ "When one door closes, another opens. But we often look so regretfully upon the closed door that we don't see the one that has opened for us." Helen Keller

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