Its My first time to have sex with my guy!

thiara_jaciane · 10-08-2009, 06:56 AM

yes you read it right...i had sex with my guy for the first time...i would like to know if my virginity is lost..and is there a chance i will get pregy..because my guy dont use condom...please some one help me what should i do?

**OhThereYouAre** · 10-08-2009, 07:12 AM

Did he ejaculate inside of you?

If so, yes, there is a chance you could be pregnant. It all depends on what part of your cycle you were at when you two had sex, the volume of his ejaculate and a host of other factors.

It's exciting that you two have taken a step in your relationship, but disappointing that you two didn't practice safe sex. If you two aren't ready to follow safe sex, you shouldn't be having it.

Are you two willing to accept a lifetime of raising a child?
Are you out of school? Are you financially stable? Are you mentally ready?

If you answered "No" to any of those questions, then you should not be having unprotected sex.

If you two did this in the past 2 or 3 days, I'd go and get the morning after pill from the nearest planned parenthood. I'd then think really hard about how my decisions can affect a lot more than just the people around myself.

Best of luck to you two.

**SinisterUrge** · 10-08-2009, 11:31 AM

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Originally Posted by thiara_jaciane

i had sex with my guy for the first time...i would like to know if my virginity is lost.

Yes it is. Welcome to womanhood, feel free to leave your childhood behind.

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is there a chance i will get pregy.

Yes.

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please some one help me what should i do?

Plan B (aka. Morning After pill). Then get yourself some birth control; They come in pill, shot, sponge, I.U.D. and other forms. Be safe and have fun.

**WildChild** · 10-08-2009, 11:34 AM

I think they've covered it. Remember conception control is to prevent pregnancy, it won't protect you from STIs.

**ThexMrs** · 10-08-2009, 04:55 PM

I agree with everyone. Good luck!

**caterpillar79** · 10-10-2009, 06:50 PM

Ditto. You should always be cautious you might contract STIs if you are not careful. Be checked regularly by an OB-GYN. Once you become sexually active you must get a PAP smear.

**nightqueen** · 10-11-2009, 04:47 PM

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Originally Posted by SinisterUrge

Yes it is. Welcome to womanhood, feel free to leave your childhood behind.

Yes.

Plan B (aka. Morning After pill). Then get yourself some birth control; They come in pill, shot, sponge, I.U.D. and other forms. Be safe and have fun.

Having sex for the first time doesn't make you a woman or not. Some people wait until they're married--maybe in their 20's. Would you say that those people are children and not women/men until they have sex?

**SinisterUrge** · 10-11-2009, 04:50 PM

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Originally Posted by nightqueen

Having sex for the first time doesn't make you a woman or not. Some people wait until they're married--maybe in their 20's. Would you say that those people are children and not women/men until they have sex?

Anthropologically speaking .....
Biologically speaking, not so much. But society likes to make children out of adults much of the time.

**WildChild** · 10-11-2009, 05:50 PM

LOL. The op hasn't been back yet. But having sex is a milestone in certain ways, learning to have good sex, however is quite another thing.

**caterpillar79** · 10-11-2009, 06:23 PM

And in some ways, a challenge to most couples.

10-08-2009, 06:56 AM	#1
thiara_jaciane Junior Member Join Date: Oct 2009 Posts: 1	Its My first time to have sex with my guy! yes you read it right...i had sex with my guy for the first time...i would like to know if my virginity is lost..and is there a chance i will get pregy..because my guy dont use condom...please some one help me what should i do?

10-08-2009, 07:12 AM	#2
OhThereYouAre Gold Contributor 500+ Posts Join Date: Jun 2009 Location: Cincinnati Posts: 1,302	Did he ejaculate inside of you? If so, yes, there is a chance you could be pregnant. It all depends on what part of your cycle you were at when you two had sex, the volume of his ejaculate and a host of other factors. It's exciting that you two have taken a step in your relationship, but disappointing that you two didn't practice safe sex. If you two aren't ready to follow safe sex, you shouldn't be having it. Are you two willing to accept a lifetime of raising a child? Are you out of school? Are you financially stable? Are you mentally ready? If you answered "No" to any of those questions, then you should not be having unprotected sex. If you two did this in the past 2 or 3 days, I'd go and get the morning after pill from the nearest planned parenthood. I'd then think really hard about how my decisions can affect a lot more than just the people around myself. Best of luck to you two. __________________ 'If you think you can or you can't, you're probably right..." "It is discouraging how many people are shocked by honesty and how few by deceit..." "People who lack the sense to question Big Lies always end up in deep trouble..." "I don't worry about pointing fingers in the past...i operate under the assumption that every saint has a past and every sinner has a future..." "Build the life you want and then find someone to share it with, someone who fits where you are and where you are going..."

10-08-2009, 11:34 AM	#4
WildChild Gold Contributor 500+ Posts Join Date: Sep 2008 Location: Western USA Posts: 6,224 Blog Entries: 5	I think they've covered it. Remember conception control is to prevent pregnancy, it won't protect you from STIs. __________________ We can only learn to love by loving. Iris Mudoch, British writer

10-08-2009, 04:55 PM	#5
ThexMrs Gold Contributor 500+ Posts Join Date: Feb 2009 Location: Oregon. Posts: 2,732 Blog Entries: 13	I agree with everyone. Good luck! __________________ "I carry your heart with me, I carry it in my heart, I am never without it, anywhere I go, you go, my dear, And whatever is done by only me is your doing, my darling."

10-10-2009, 06:50 PM	#6
caterpillar79 Gold Contributor 500+ Posts Join Date: Mar 2009 Location: MidWest, USA Posts: 1,321 Blog Entries: 51	Ditto. You should always be cautious you might contract STIs if you are not careful. Be checked regularly by an OB-GYN. Once you become sexually active you must get a PAP smear. __________________ Life is not about waiting for the storm to pass, but learning how to dance in the rain.

10-11-2009, 05:50 PM	#9
WildChild Gold Contributor 500+ Posts Join Date: Sep 2008 Location: Western USA Posts: 6,224 Blog Entries: 5	LOL. The op hasn't been back yet. But having sex is a milestone in certain ways, learning to have good sex, however is quite another thing. __________________ We can only learn to love by loving. Iris Mudoch, British writer

10-11-2009, 06:23 PM	#10
caterpillar79 Gold Contributor 500+ Posts Join Date: Mar 2009 Location: MidWest, USA Posts: 1,321 Blog Entries: 51	And in some ways, a challenge to most couples. __________________ Life is not about waiting for the storm to pass, but learning how to dance in the rain.

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