PREGGY, high sex drive but no orgasm?

**mye_mye** · 10-12-2009, 02:20 AM

Me and my hubby have both high sex drives, before, we do it daily, but since I'm pregnant we make it thrice a week or twice sometimes.
and the problem is .every time we had sex, its hard for me to have orgasm,no matter what position we did. he feels disappointed because he thinks its his fault.
any one of you experienced likes this?

what should i do? i think he is not satisfied every time i have no orgasm.

OhThereYouAre · 10-12-2009, 06:10 AM

Is he worried about it or are you?

Was this preivously a concern, or only now that you are pregnant?

Will he do oral?

**mye_mye** · 10-12-2009, 07:36 AM

he is also worried, because he thinks it's his fault..

the last we did it. he says, whats wrong?am i good?huhu..
he don't like oral.

**caterpillar79** · 10-12-2009, 08:29 AM

It happens. Let him know that it is not his fault - it is nobody's fault. Your body changes when you are pregnant, so with your hormones. Who is more bothered if you can't orgasm - you or him? How do you act when you do not orgasm? I understand, this is difficult for both of you.

OhThereYouAre · 10-12-2009, 08:37 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by mye_mye

he don't like oral.

Well...that's probably a pretty easy way to get you to orgasm. Does he know this?

Beggars can't be choosers.

But what do you want? Is this affecting you? Are you concerned?

**LanaBear** · 10-12-2009, 11:49 AM

You body is going through so many changes. Especially during pregnancy you can't really compare what sex is like now to what it was like before.

Neither of you should be concerned about this. Chances are, you may yet go through another change after you give birth.

Just explain to him that yes, he is fine, but your body is changing at the moment. It is possible to enjoy sex without having an orgasm every time.

**mye_mye** · 10-12-2009, 08:43 PM

How do you act when you do not orgasm?
Well, it is something i can't explain.It also affects my mood. i hate it,
It is possible to enjoy sex without having an orgasm every time.
How? for me, i can't enjoy it with out having orgasm..

**mye_mye** · 10-12-2009, 08:43 PM

How do you act when you do not orgasm?
Well, it is something i can't explain.It also affects my mood. i hate it,
It is possible to enjoy sex without having an orgasm every time.
How? for me, i can't enjoy it with out having orgasm..

**LanaBear** · 10-12-2009, 09:02 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by mye_mye

It is possible to enjoy sex without having an orgasm every time.
How? for me, i can't enjoy it with out having orgasm..

I don't know, for me it's not entirely about the orgasm. I get extreme pleasure in just being with him intimately. The orgasm is the bonus for me, which thankfully happens almost every time.

Also, another thing, I know this is hard but try not to think about the orgasm. The moment I try too hard for one is when I know I'll never achieve one. Try not to put too much thought into it.

**mye_mye** · 10-14-2009, 02:45 AM

we're both unsatisfied every time I'm not having an orgasm,But, I'm more affected..

Maybe i have to wait for the time until i give birth..

10-12-2009, 02:20 AM	#1
mye_mye VIP Member Join Date: Oct 2009 Posts: 48	PREGGY, high sex drive but no orgasm? Me and my hubby have both high sex drives, before, we do it daily, but since I'm pregnant we make it thrice a week or twice sometimes. and the problem is .every time we had sex, its hard for me to have orgasm,no matter what position we did. he feels disappointed because he thinks its his fault. any one of you experienced likes this? what should i do? i think he is not satisfied every time i have no orgasm. __________________ ____________ Know yourself and you will win all battles _____________________________

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mye_mye VIP Member Join Date: Oct 2009 Posts: 48	he is also worried, because he thinks it's his fault.. the last we did it. he says, whats wrong?am i good?huhu.. he don't like oral. __________________ ____________ Know yourself and you will win all battles _____________________________

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caterpillar79 WH Moderator Join Date: Mar 2009 Location: MidWest, USA Posts: 2,831 Blog Entries: 59	It happens. Let him know that it is not his fault - it is nobody's fault. Your body changes when you are pregnant, so with your hormones. Who is more bothered if you can't orgasm - you or him? How do you act when you do not orgasm? I understand, this is difficult for both of you. __________________ Life is not about waiting for the storm to pass, but learning how to dance in the rain. Register! \| Rules/FAQ \|Contact Mod\| Contact Admin

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LanaBear WH Moderator Breakout Champion! Moon Lander Champion! Join Date: Jul 2009 Location: A raft in the middle of the pacific. ;-) Posts: 3,804	You body is going through so many changes. Especially during pregnancy you can't really compare what sex is like now to what it was like before. Neither of you should be concerned about this. Chances are, you may yet go through another change after you give birth. Just explain to him that yes, he is fine, but your body is changing at the moment. It is possible to enjoy sex without having an orgasm every time. __________________ Sometimes life isn't the party we hoped for, but since we're here, we might as well DANCE! Life isn't about finding* yourself. Life is about creating yourself.* Register! \| Rules/FAQ \| Contact Mod

10-12-2009, 08:43 PM	#7
mye_mye VIP Member Join Date: Oct 2009 Posts: 48	How do you act when you do not orgasm? Well, it is something i can't explain.It also affects my mood. i hate it, It is possible to enjoy sex without having an orgasm every time. How? for me, i can't enjoy it with out having orgasm.. __________________ ____________ Know yourself and you will win all battles _____________________________

10-12-2009, 06:10 AM	#2
OhThereYouAre Banned from WH Join Date: Jun 2009 Posts: 1,485	Is he worried about it or are you? Was this preivously a concern, or only now that you are pregnant? Will he do oral?

10-14-2009, 02:45 AM	#10
mye_mye VIP Member Join Date: Oct 2009 Posts: 48	we're both unsatisfied every time I'm not having an orgasm,But, I'm more affected.. Maybe i have to wait for the time until i give birth.. __________________ ____________ Know yourself and you will win all battles _____________________________

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