Thread: tips for giving a good bj

ok good idea..i'll do that

#1 Don't use your teeth. Obviously!

#2 Be enthusiastic. Acting like you're enjoying it goes a long way.

Other than that it pretty much depends on your guy and on anything specific that he might like. Don't be afraid to ask him or to experiment.

I really don't want to imgine but I can guess that giving head is an arduous task. Possibly because I have 'good' stamina. As Tex pointed out: enthusiasm is key to the whole endeavor. Also remember, that the giver is in the drivers seat.

From my experience here are a few tips that might make it easier on the giver of said bj:

-deep throating is over-rated, variety is wonderful. Do not worry about how deep you can take a penis into your mouth.

-because you are in the drivers seat, when you get tired try something like asking your partner to straddle your chest and tell them how much you want to watch them masturbate. This will give you a much needed break and can be very informative too. You can jump back in at anytime and help finish. It should be easy to tell when your help is needed. Enthusiasm, again is key.

-being able to multitask is also very nice. Other stimuli can help a lot.

Make it fun! Try different things, variety...

btw- in the best of craigslist there is a great post from 5-22-09 titled 'tips for giving head'.

best of luck!

thx for all ur help
ok i'll try all of that it sounds good!!

wet, messy, loud

i agree with everyone else on here. Dont use your teeth. i never thought of that until i ended up biting my bfs ....so te best thing you could do is not use your teeth