Girl on Top--Catch 22??

**kygirl** · 10-16-2009 02:36 PM

So the guy I'm dating knows I am most likely to orgasm on top. He figured that pretty quick. He also figured out that is most likely to when he's on top...SO, generally, I end up on top pretty quickly and usually I stay there until the point where he knows "I'm good" how ever many times or until I finally kinda flip him over with me

I like being on top, it feels incredible and I love that he knows that it's the best way to make sure I'm satisfied...BUT I get a little self conscious?

I feel like it is also the angle which I'm more unattractive which sometimes can be counterproductive if I start thinking about that too much...

Does anyone else have this issue?

Guys do you even think about that when the woman's on top?

**the_8itch** · 10-16-2009 02:44 PM

I have issue's with my weight but when my partner tries to get me to go on top i always think that's when i look the worse and i feel very unattractive. I don't know if it's just a female thing or not but i completely understand how you feel as i feel exactly the same x

**danceintx** · 10-16-2009 02:44 PM

Goodness yes, after 2 kids I am so insecure about how I look on top. I think about it too, but I try not to, because men usually are more turned on by confidence then a perfect body.

**LanaBear** · 10-16-2009 02:45 PM

Originally Posted by danceintx

Goodness yes, after 2 kids I am so insecure about how I look on top.

HAHA - ditto that!

**kygirl** · 10-16-2009 02:52 PM

Originally Posted by danceintx

I think about it too, but I try not to, because men usually are more turned on by confidence then a perfect body.

I definitely try not to think about it too much... It's easier after a glass of wine... but sometimes sober with the lights on, it gets a bit harder to be confident!

oddly enough, sometimes I think about it after the orgasm and It's like some lightbulb goes off in my head after the moment (kinda like when you have to get out of bed to go to the restroom) and suddenly I'm like "OMG, was he thinking about how my stomach looked just then?"

It's totally a girl thing, I'm sure....

**Texinator** · 10-16-2009 02:57 PM

Originally Posted by kygirl

"OMG, was he thinking about how my stomach looked just then?"

He was probably thinking about how beautiful you looked.

The wonderful view is why Girl on Top is my favorite position.

**kygirl** · 10-16-2009 03:07 PM

Originally Posted by Tex

He was probably thinking about how beautiful you looked.

The wonderful view is why Girl on Top is my favorite position.

I know it's different for guys. I had one of my guy friends tell me one time that he's usually too busy looking at boobs to worry about any flaws.

And I'm sure during sex is the last time you think about it. I know I don't worry about any flaw when I see my guy naked

**WildChild** · 10-16-2009 03:48 PM

I must be an odd ball, when I'm having sex I'm thinking about sex, not my stomach, make up or much of anything else. But anyway on top is ok but not my fav.

**AloneNtheCrowd** · 10-16-2009 06:24 PM

Guys don't really care, we generally love the view! I know it's one of my favs

**SinisterUrge** · 10-16-2009 06:47 PM

Interesting trivia # 457

Its can be unpleasantly painful to have sex with a woman who is the "perfect" 8% body fat type. Lots of bones and angles going-on. Give me rubenesque any day!