Forum:

Page 1 of 7 123 ... LastLast
Results 1 to 10 of 63

Thread: Your first time sex.

  1. #1
    Junior Member Array Elidicious's Avatar
    Join Date
    Oct 2009
    Posts
    25

    Default Your first time sex.

    Hello,
    i was just curious to know how was your first time sex.
    at what age did you have it?
    where ? with who? did it hurt? did you bleed a lot.

    i'm 22, still virgin. and i'm unexperienced when it comes to sex. i just know what i've heard/read.

    when do you think it's too soon/late to lose your virginity?



  2. #2
    Silver Contributor 100+ Posts Array danceintx's Avatar
    Join Date
    Sep 2009
    Location
    H-Town, Texas
    Posts
    291

    Default

    I was 15, way too young in my opinion. I had a lot of older friends at that time that made fun of me about it alot. So I decided I would just pick somebody and do it. I picked this 23 year old guy who was very cute and was hitting on me at the time. So I called him, told him the plan, I went over, we did it, and that was that. I really wish I would have thought that through a little better. I don't think there is a too soon/too late to loose your virginity. I do think you should not be too young because you just don't make mature enough decisions. But waiting a long time will not hurt anything either. Just try to make sure it means something and is with someone who really cares about you.

  3. #3
    Junior Member Array
    Join Date
    Oct 2009
    Posts
    7

    Default

    I was 16 the guy was my boyfriend who was 21. We were in his apartment in his room, when he was showing me his art work. I laid down on the bed and took off my shoes and undid my pants..... then it started to happen. It did hurt at first cos i was nervous. I didn't bleed at all, that I am aware of. His flatmate came home and walked in on us. I was mortified. :P It was all over so quick. He dumped me a few days later because he was christian and felt he was doing the wrong thing.

  4. #4
    Junior Member Array
    Join Date
    Oct 2009
    Posts
    7

    Default

    oh yeah and it's never too late to lose your virginity. do it when the time is right. my sister is 29 and a virgin.

  5. #5
    WH Assistant Head Moderator Array LanaBear's Avatar
    Join Date
    Jul 2009
    Location
    Vegas
    Posts
    8,491
    Blog Entries
    1

    Default

    It's never too late. I was 15 and feel that I was too young.

    The first time was rather uneventful. Dated a guy who was in the Marines for a few months. He came home on leave and we did it. I, for some reason, avoided him from that day forward. He called and called for about 3-4 months after. I was always "washing my hair"....
    Friendship Prayer
    May the fleas of a thousand camels infest the crotch of the person who screws up your day and may their arms be too short to scratch.
    Amen

    Whoever said anything was possible obviously never tried slamming a revolving door.



  6. #6
    Junior Member Array
    Join Date
    Oct 2009
    Location
    California
    Posts
    12

    Default

    Quote Originally Posted by LanaBear View Post
    He called and called for about 3-4 months after. I was always "washing my hair"....
    Omfg! Best excuse ever xD
    Anywho, sex.
    Hmm. I'm 18 and still a virgin. Sorry for wasting your time.
    But God, I can't even get two fingers in there..
    So, sex, I dunno what's waitning for me in that direction o.o


    What is the purpose of my life?
    Is there really a reason for me to be here?
    Why does it seem like my existence is meaningless?
    Who is going to save me and give me the answers I need?
    How can I leave this wretched place?
    When will I be able to escape this h3ll?
    Which way is the exist?
    Where is this supposed light I'm to see?


  7. #7
    Junior Member Array WhiteSparrows's Avatar
    Join Date
    Oct 2009
    Location
    Canada
    Posts
    9

    Default

    I was almost 21 years old when I first had sex. He was my boyfriend for 5 months at the time, we went out for 11 months, and yes it hurt quite a bit but not as bad as I expected. I didn't bleed at all. I wish I hadn't slept with him though, and I ended up regretting it because he turned out to be an immature, self-centered twat. It disgusts me that I ever did anything with him.
    To answer your other question, I think any age under 17 is too young. I don't think it's ever too late to lose your virginity. Being a virgin is a good thing.

  8. #8
    WH Super Moderator Array x.st.angel.x's Avatar
    Join Date
    Apr 2009
    Location
    Australia
    Posts
    1,465
    Blog Entries
    2

    Default

    I was 16, my boyfriend at the time was 17 we dated for over a year and he was a virgin too. We had sex for the first time 6 months into the relationship...it hurt a little bit, no blood. I feel i was way too young, it caused a lot of mental problems for me, i became extremely insecure! Took me a while to get back on track again
    Lifes not about how many breaths you take its about how many moments take your breath away!

    Shoot for the moon. Even if you miss it you will land among the stars

  9. #9
    WH Super Moderator Array x.st.angel.x's Avatar
    Join Date
    Apr 2009
    Location
    Australia
    Posts
    1,465
    Blog Entries
    2

    Default

    Take your time, when it happens it happens. Try make it special
    Lifes not about how many breaths you take its about how many moments take your breath away!

    Shoot for the moon. Even if you miss it you will land among the stars

  10. #10
    WH Head Moderator Array WildChild's Avatar
    Join Date
    Sep 2008
    Location
    Western USA
    Posts
    14,515
    Blog Entries
    6

    Default

    I was 14 and like a lot of stuff you do at that age it was no big deal and done kind of heedlessly.
    We can only learn to love by loving. - Iris Mudoch, British writer

Page 1 of 7 123 ... LastLast

Similar Threads

  1. Replies: 7
    Last Post: 06-02-2009, 03:25 AM
  2. All I want is to have sex all the time
    By babs3465 in forum Sex
    Replies: 10
    Last Post: 01-03-2008, 06:11 PM

Bookmarks

Posting Permissions

  • You may not post new threads
  • You may not post replies
  • You may not post attachments
  • You may not edit your posts
  •  

Beauty & Style | Fitness & Nutrition | Family & Relationships | Sex & Sexual Health | Physical & Mental Health | Girl Talk | Forum Home
Home | Health Library | Contact | Terms Of Service
© Womens-Health.com 2011+