Bleeding. Answers very appreciated.

sfm1 · 10-20-2009, 04:56 AM

Just really wanted something cleared up 'cause I'm a little worried.

I lost my virginity early last year to my ex-boyfriend, and never bled. We had sex often, and I never bled with him, ever.

However, this weekend I had sex with a new partner for the first time and I bled. I was wondering if it was possible that my hymen had just broken - that it hadn't ever broken with my ex-boyfriend? Or should I get checked out for something?

Thanks so much for any help. Just want to ease my mind!

**WildChild** · 10-20-2009, 07:24 AM

Were you close to your period? Sometimes the muscle contractions of orgasm or the penis bumping the cervix can move things along.

**Loveshoes** · 10-20-2009, 09:59 AM

WC is correct, or a different partner means different sensations. It could be from friction or just the fact that things have changed.

sfm1 · 10-20-2009, 10:08 AM

It was my last day of taking the contraceptive pill, so yes, I was pretty close to my period. So maybe that could be the reason.

Thanks a lot, both of you. Much appreciated. I was just worrying about all sorts of things!

Thanks again. (:

**WildChild** · 10-20-2009, 11:48 AM

99% of this stuff usually resolves itself if you just don't stress about it

10-20-2009, 04:56 AM	#1
sfm1 Junior Member Join Date: Oct 2009 Posts: 2	Bleeding. Answers very appreciated. Just really wanted something cleared up 'cause I'm a little worried. I lost my virginity early last year to my ex-boyfriend, and never bled. We had sex often, and I never bled with him, ever. However, this weekend I had sex with a new partner for the first time and I bled. I was wondering if it was possible that my hymen had just broken - that it hadn't ever broken with my ex-boyfriend? Or should I get checked out for something? Thanks so much for any help. Just want to ease my mind!

10-20-2009, 07:24 AM	#2
WildChild Gold Contributor 500+ Posts Join Date: Sep 2008 Location: Western USA Posts: 6,230 Blog Entries: 5	Were you close to your period? Sometimes the muscle contractions of orgasm or the penis bumping the cervix can move things along. __________________ We can only learn to love by loving. Iris Mudoch, British writer

10-20-2009, 09:59 AM	#3
Loveshoes VIP Member Join Date: Aug 2009 Location: Oklahoma Posts: 88	WC is correct, or a different partner means different sensations. It could be from friction or just the fact that things have changed. __________________ Be the change you want to see in the world!

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WildChild Gold Contributor 500+ Posts Join Date: Sep 2008 Location: Western USA Posts: 6,230 Blog Entries: 5	99% of this stuff usually resolves itself if you just don't stress about it __________________ We can only learn to love by loving. Iris Mudoch, British writer

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10-20-2009, 10:08 AM	#4
sfm1 Junior Member Join Date: Oct 2009 Posts: 2	It was my last day of taking the contraceptive pill, so yes, I was pretty close to my period. So maybe that could be the reason. Thanks a lot, both of you. Much appreciated. I was just worrying about all sorts of things! Thanks again. (:

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