Getting Boredd..

bielecki · 10-20-2009, 01:24 PM

Okayy. Well me and my boyfriend have been dating for 8 months now and things are going perfect except Me and him both agree that sex is getting boring and we want to try something new so i need some ideas for something new(Definetly Do NOT want to do anal) We already do different positions. but there just not enough. so plzz help??

**OhThereYouAre** · 10-20-2009, 02:16 PM

We didn't need to spicen things up, but one day she confronted me in the TV room wearing black sheer thigh high stockings and a sexy little black outfit. I was amazed at the effect it had.

The suprise factor also helps.

**SinisterUrge** · 10-20-2009, 03:18 PM

1. Wikipedia has an entry for 'list of sexual positions'. Start at the top and work your way down the list in order (Everyone wins when you play this game, plus it'll kill a month of time easy)

2. Learn some fancy moves: There are many good instructional porn series (Sinclair, Alexander intimacy, Nina Hartley, Tristan Taormino, et cetera). My favorite instructional company so far has been OSK productions out of Canada

3. Costumes and roleplaying

4. Bondage

5. S&M/spanking

6. Location location location (I do not recommend the bathroom at Wendy's).

New2this · 10-20-2009, 10:38 PM

I always liked to imagine the different ways I could have gotten together with my boyfriend. Its fun to make up, knowing what I know now, how I could draw him in. I digress, but the point is sexual stuff is almost always the most passionate AT FIRST. Sometimes romantically approaching him or "having fun" (as I call it, we don't have sex yet) as if I was someone else, doing it to some one else, always made it feel more interesting. (not that he isn't interesting the way he was, but like your situation, things would just get so vanilla!) Its all about using your imagination. Remember when you had a crush on him? Try to see him the same way you saw him then, then re-approach all that fun stuff all over again. Mix things up, be different!

**geedee** · 10-20-2009, 10:41 PM

How about sex toys?

**nightqueen** · 10-21-2009, 04:20 AM

You could watch porn together? Talk about fantasies?

**Texasred** · 10-21-2009, 08:04 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by OhThereYouAre

We didn't need to spicen things up, but one day she confronted me in the TV room wearing black sheer thigh high stockings and a sexy little black outfit. I was amazed at the effect it had.

With high heels too, right?
That very same outfit does it for me too!

The last time my S.O. wore that, we couldn't even take time to undress...

**OhThereYouAre** · 10-21-2009, 08:28 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Texasred

With high heels too, right?
That very same outfit does it for me too!

The last time my S.O. wore that, we couldn't even take time to undress...

Haha. Yessir. Some cute slip ons with heels that she had just bought that day.

**rcoreyus** · 10-21-2009, 08:56 AM

role-playing and bondage can be fun. If you can talk openly with each other, see if you can act out fantasies.

alterview · 10-21-2009, 11:16 AM

i think that good communication is very important in keeping things from getting boring. being able to be open and willing to discuss your turn ons really does help. also, it helps to be able to break out of the normal daily routine. some times dinner can wait...

role play can be very fun. i had a friend who would email a situation the night before our tryst. by the time i arrived at her house the next day we were both very turned on and into our role.

i love the idea of the random, out of the blue come ons like OTYA mentioned (lucky guy!).

best of luck!

10-20-2009, 01:24 PM	#1
bielecki Junior Member Join Date: Oct 2009 Posts: 1	Getting Boredd.. Okayy. Well me and my boyfriend have been dating for 8 months now and things are going perfect except Me and him both agree that sex is getting boring and we want to try something new so i need some ideas for something new(Definetly Do NOT want to do anal) We already do different positions. but there just not enough. so plzz help??

10-20-2009, 02:16 PM	#2
OhThereYouAre Gold Contributor 500+ Posts Join Date: Jun 2009 Location: Cincinnati Posts: 1,302	We didn't need to spicen things up, but one day she confronted me in the TV room wearing black sheer thigh high stockings and a sexy little black outfit. I was amazed at the effect it had. The suprise factor also helps. __________________ 'If you think you can or you can't, you're probably right..." "It is discouraging how many people are shocked by honesty and how few by deceit..." "People who lack the sense to question Big Lies always end up in deep trouble..." "I don't worry about pointing fingers in the past...i operate under the assumption that every saint has a past and every sinner has a future..." "Build the life you want and then find someone to share it with, someone who fits where you are and where you are going..."

10-21-2009, 11:16 AM	#10
alterview Junior Member Join Date: Oct 2009 Location: oregon Posts: 18	+1 for role play i think that good communication is very important in keeping things from getting boring. being able to be open and willing to discuss your turn ons really does help. also, it helps to be able to break out of the normal daily routine. some times dinner can wait... role play can be very fun. i had a friend who would email a situation the night before our tryst. by the time i arrived at her house the next day we were both very turned on and into our role. i love the idea of the random, out of the blue come ons like OTYA mentioned (lucky guy!). best of luck!

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10-20-2009, 03:18 PM	#3
SinisterUrge Silver Contributor 100+ Posts Join Date: Feb 2008 Posts: 423	1. Wikipedia has an entry for 'list of sexual positions'. Start at the top and work your way down the list in order (Everyone wins when you play this game, plus it'll kill a month of time easy) 2. Learn some fancy moves: There are many good instructional porn series (Sinclair, Alexander intimacy, Nina Hartley, Tristan Taormino, et cetera). My favorite instructional company so far has been OSK productions out of Canada 3. Costumes and roleplaying 4. Bondage 5. S&M/spanking 6. Location location location (I do not recommend the bathroom at Wendy's).

10-20-2009, 10:38 PM	#4
New2this Junior Member Join Date: Oct 2009 Posts: 6	I always liked to imagine the different ways I could have gotten together with my boyfriend. Its fun to make up, knowing what I know now, how I could draw him in. I digress, but the point is sexual stuff is almost always the most passionate AT FIRST. Sometimes romantically approaching him or "having fun" (as I call it, we don't have sex yet) as if I was someone else, doing it to some one else, always made it feel more interesting. (not that he isn't interesting the way he was, but like your situation, things would just get so vanilla!) Its all about using your imagination. Remember when you had a crush on him? Try to see him the same way you saw him then, then re-approach all that fun stuff all over again. Mix things up, be different!

10-20-2009, 10:41 PM	#5
geedee VIP Member Join Date: Oct 2009 Posts: 58	How about sex toys?

10-21-2009, 04:20 AM	#6
nightqueen Silver Contributor 100+ Posts Join Date: Jan 2009 Posts: 187	You could watch porn together? Talk about fantasies?

10-21-2009, 08:56 AM	#9
rcoreyus March 2008 "Poster of the Month" Join Date: Sep 2007 Location: SF bay area Posts: 1,334	role-playing and bondage can be fun. If you can talk openly with each other, see if you can act out fantasies.