itsjustme

IVE BEEN HAVING SEX FOR 3 YEARS NOW AND WITH EACH AND EVERY PARTNER I DONNT FEEL A THING IVE HAD MEN OF ALL SIZES AS SMALL AS 5 INCHES TO 9 INCHES DIFFERNT SHAPE AND WIDETH BUT SAME OUT COME NOTHING NO OOOHHS NO AAAAHS DURING INTERCOARSE ORAL SEX IS FINE...THANK GOD BUT THE INSIDE IS SENSATIONLESS LIKE I NEED HELP BAD I KNOW IN NOT ALONEIVE READ OF OTHER WOMEN HAVING THIS ISSUSE SOOO IF YOU COULD PLEASE HELP IV TRYED EVERY POSITION TOUCH MYSELF WHILE HE PENETRATES BUT NOTHING NOTHING NOTHING

OhThereYouAre

I wouldn't worry about it.

There aren't near as many nerve endings inside the vagina as there are near and around the entrance. So, it isn't unheard of to not get much pleasure out of intercourse. In fact, I think for a lot of women, the act of penetration has a lot to do with emotional contact rather than physical.

I'm glad your guy does oral....looks like you guys will be comprimising for a while. As long as you are both getting sexually satisfied, why does it matter what you prefer?

Try getting on top again. You can better control the angle of penetration, and you can slide around and try and stimulate your clit. It's a great view for us guys, too.

Things like this make me wonder why God designed men and women's sexual parts so different.

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OhThereYouAre

Additionally, see if you respond to G-spot stimulation.

Your g-spot is about two knuckles in on the front wall of the vagina. It may feel like a ridged dome shaped bump. Rub, press, tease, see what you think.

Some like this, some don't.

It's worth a try.

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"It is discouraging how many people are shocked by honesty and how few by deceit..."

"People who lack the sense to question Big Lies always end up in deep trouble..."

"I don't worry about pointing fingers in the past...i operate under the assumption that every saint has a past and every sinner has a future..."

"Build the life you want and then find someone to share it with, someone who fits where you are and where you are going..."

Texasred

It could be simply that your Caps Lock button is feeling depressed...

WildChild

OTYA is right that there really aren't many nerves in the vagina.That vaginal orgasm thing was a little fantasy of Freud's, that has little basis in reality. Think about it; what would child birth be like if your vagina was loaded with nerve endings? It would probably do wonders for population control .

Instead woman have a clitorus loaded with 8000 nerve endings, that's twice what a man has in his penis. Those nerves don't just spring into exsistance beginning and ending in the clit, but every woman is "wired" a little differently. For the most part the vulva is very sensitive, and the G-spot. For some of us the nerves pathways make orgasm with intercourse a regular and intense experience while for others it requires a fairly direct clitoral stimulation.

The mind is the biggest sexual organ, women can actually orgasm without being touched. I'd bet men can too but I'll let them speak for themselves on that. Many woman don't experience orgasm at all and in most cases that is an emotional/mental block. The fact that you can orgasm means you should be able to learn to expand that into other types of sexual evperience. There are a lot of good books and materials available, maybe start educating your self?

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m.hendry

Hey i recently posted a topic like this a few months ago. i was the exact same as you (and alot of times still am) however recently i finally found pleasure from intercourse.
First off are you totally comfortable with intercourse? are you lying there thinking " oh god i look/sound stupid" anything like that takes your mind off what you are feeling and when that happens, well for me i wont feel a thing.
I noticed after a while that I personally cant have my boyfriend go in too deep at first, like OhThereYouAre said you have to try and find the g spot which is about 2 knuckles in and if your boyfriend takes the time he may feel it and he should focus on stimulating this area at first. i dont find this to bring any immediate sensation however after a while some form of feeling does start to happen, its not mind blowing id say its pleasant. By this time i will have gotten more relaxed and then my boyfriend can move in deeper as you expand when aroused and so this spot he rubs against moves further up and by this time the part of him just above his penis can hit off my clitoris while hes going in and out, this is what brings everything together for me once my clit has a little stimulation from him moving the inside starts to feel a little better and eventually builds up more. I havent had an orgasm through it and it hasnt been intense it has been pleasant and just like you if you have success with this you'll at least be happy you can feel a little bit of sensation.Eventually you'll be able to find out what works and the pleasure will build up. You really have to keep your mind focused on what you are feeling if your mind wanders the sensation disappears.
i just thought id share with you how i finally felt a little something which kept my mind at rest. But bear in mind it doesnt happen everytime for me, if i overthink things and think " i have to feel something, why isnt it working" it just makes your mind wander even more and well that never gets anywhere. Sex isnt always amazing there are still times nothing happens, but its all about mind control you must keep focused and be aware if hes at the right spot inside of you and, if needed that he is hitting against your clitoris (which can be tricky to figure out for a while) but eventually you will figure out how to position yourself and himself.
hope ive helped you in some way at least, i know how soul crushing it can be to feel so different from everyone else, i dont want other people going through that too.
hope things go well for you and your partner in the near future x

WildChild

You might the book,The Orgasm Loop, by sex therapist Susan Crane Bakos helpful. She provides a technique for focusing your sexual energy.

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