sonalncsu09

during intercourse is m guys get most pleasure during ejaculation.
what about girls? do they get pleasure throughout the intercourse?
or they have some kind of peak like men, assuming most the women don't orgasm during intercoure.

Thanks

WildChild

I do orgasm through intercourse the experience varies depending on foreplay, arousal levels, posistion - a variety of factors. When he gets harder just before he cums, my response intensifies.

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ThexMrs

I don't orgasm through intercourse unfortunately... For me I've only orgasmed once and that was through oral sex. I have once been close to orgasming through fingering but we ended up having sex so I didn't luck out.

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Mes_T

I'm kind of the same. I don't orgasm through intercourse. I mean, I suppose technically I could, if he got me SUPER aroused just before with manual or oral stimulation.

ThexMrs

The only time I even came close to orgasming though intercourse, I was on my period and was kind of weirded out by that. I had never had sex on my period before but my boyfriend really wanted to and he said it didn't bother him at all. Thing is, I had to stimulate myself to even get close to the orgasm so I guess it wasn't just the intercourse itself.

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OhThereYouAre

If you ladies ever want to enjoy intercourse in the same physical manner that your partner does, you may want to learn ways to orgasm during intercourse.

It takes a bit of work and patience for both partners, but it is well worth it.

From reading here, I think a main reason women shut down from intercourse, or sex for that matter, is because they dont' find it nearly as fulfilling as their man does.

Sexually speaking, I don't think there is anything hotter than having simulataneous orgasms, where her spasms cause you to spasm and vice versa.

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nightqueen

I'm actually really bothered by your comment. Many, many, many women cannot orgasm through intercourse. It's not a matter of "learning" it's a matter of how our bodies are made. Please don't make us feel that we're doing something wrong because we take additional stimulation to orgasm.

Mes_T

I kind of agree with nightqueen...

TTrix

I can't have an orgasm during intercourse without some sort of clitoral stimulation. Either when I'm on top my partner touches me or if he's doing it from behind I'll give myself a "helping hand". I wish I knew what a vaginal orgasm was or that I could just have a spontaneous orgasm during intercourse, but after so many years I don't think it's going to happen.

Texasred

I don't think you're entirely correct;
I think most womens' bodies are similar, just as are most mens'.

I'm not trying to insult anyone, or demean anyone, but I think only a very small percentage of women (or men, for that matter) are physiologically incapable of orgasm during intercourse.
Orgasm is primarily a mental activity, though, and while having an orgasm might not be "learned," I'm sure that NOT having an orgasm can easily be "learned." Being unsuccessful a few dozen times can easily convince a person that he/she is going to continue to be unsuccessful.

Night, I think that there are numerous women on this forum and elsewhere who could give you some excellent advice and support.

Best wishes,
TR