Brian

Guys, thanks so much for the response. I really appreciate the advice

I can't be the only guy who has tasted his own semen...didn't taste of anything to me, just texture. And in case any of the guys here make me out to be a freak tasting your own semen is like putting a finger in your anus when you masturbate - its something we've all done but wont admit to!

Reading your posts I can't understand how anyone can be married to someone and have such infrequent sex. It seems to me that with marriage the spontaneity and passion of sex just disappears. I might be biased, marriage has NEVER appealed to me...

As for the girlfriend, I've talked to her and its over. It was more than her sexual feelings towards me, she threw a tantrum and smashed our LCD TV and has disowned her dog, who I am now responsible for. Apparently "All men are s!" But its her loss

PJhavinfunagain

Well now you can move on and hopefully find the woman who is your match, especially in the sex dept.

FYI... while sex is important, there are many aspects of a relationship that are just as important. Mutual love and respect are the 2 biggest. If you have that it will help everything else.

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WildChild

Sometimes things just hit a raw nerve - happens to all of us once in a while. Some of us aren't so good at hiding it.

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Mes_T

Glad the the OP has resolved the relationship... Looks like there were more issues there than met the eye!

Anyway, I just wanted to add that I really enjoy going down on a man who I have strong feelings for. (For example, I love doing it for my current boyfriend, just to watch those reactions of his! YUM!!) Otherwise, I'd probably still do it, but I wouldn't get any enjoyment myself out of it.

Texasred

Not hostility towards you personally, just your offensive, sweeping, and self-centered generalizations.
Don't take it personally!

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Brian?

A lesson for you to learn

Women are beautiful and if treated with perfection you will get everything, absolutely everything you want out of life from them.... Because you believe they are beautiful creatures, they want to be sexy and wear what they want, because that's what makes them feel beautiful and as a result they treat you exactly how you want.

Start with the boxes, of what "you want" , you cruise, you lose.

Always make them feel sexy, loved, beautiful regardless of what you prefer and then slowly introduce that " you know what? I think your sexy in Bond's knickers and nothing else, your just beautiful". See what I'm saying?

You get your way but you made her feel sexy.

Don't turn out to be one of these sensless, silly I will do and expect, what I want and you just accept...

You'll get the in-secure women.. But, reverse? You'll get a "Real Woman".. because she trusts and believe in you and in herself and afterall that's sexy.

CW

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OhThereYouAre

LOL.

CW - you're setting him up for failure.

I'll be more realistic, yet less positive.

Brian - even if you treat some women like gold, they will take advantage and fail to reciprocate your caring actions. Men can do it to. Again...more of a personality issue.

Make sure you find a woman who is as beautiful on the inside as she is on the outside.

Good luck.

WildChild

Absolutely true of both genders. If you approach anyone as if you expect them to abuse and mistreat you, or with an attitude of making them pay for what past partners have done, you will make both them and yourself miserable.

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caterpillar79

It all depends on the person - please don't generalize especially here...you'll be in BIG trouble, I bet ya! lol...

I just did BJ's with my fiance. I didn't do it with any one else. As for me, it's a trust factor. I love doing it to him, and receiving it from him as well.

It all depends from person to person. For most, it COULD be an acquired taste, and/or shared values.

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Awoman2

I agree with the OP to some extent because I have had friends say similar things, even they only did their guy after he did them first and not because they particularly wanted to, things like that which suggest to me that it's a 'you first' kind of thing and has little to do with intimacy.

For me, it depends on the way I feel about the man I'm with. I don't consider it degrading but it doesn't bear the same enjoyment for me with everyone.

My most recent lover, whom I totally adore makes me feel like I could suck him all day, and it's all about the intimacy, the love, the pleasure I know I'm giving him. Sometimes, even if you're not a total fan of giving fellatio, just knowing that you can make your partner react the way he does when you do it, could be just as pleasurable. At the same time, our partners should accept that all women are not the same and we don't all like the same things either, but if your girlfriend finds a reciprocated act demanding, I wouldn't be particularly happy about it, if I were you.

As far as swallowing is concerned, I'm not a particular fan of it, because the taste can be so heavily affected by your diet and can vary from encounter to encounter, but does it hurt if we don't swallow? I don't mind rubbing it over my body, though.