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    Ah your so cute.

    Okay.. well, start kissing her thighs, her shoulders, see woman need to feel that it's NON sexual, in as much as you love them and want them, not all about the "bits"... so maybe if you change your pattern a bit, seeing as you've worked out the ears work, so will the thighs Give her a 15 minute body massage without touching her "bits"... She loves penetration.. She will get on top of you and go for it and get lost, ..

    2 minute man? How long it takes you to penetrate and cum.

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    hahah thanks for the cute comment lol

    usually it will be around 10-20minutes foreplay before penetrating and when i penetrate her with condom on. usually within 20 minutes i would NOT feel like ejaculating yet but she will feel the friction. I will then remove the condom and she will feel alot better and it will be probably around 15 minutes later whereby her she complains again then i'll finish off.

    if i penetrate her without condom straight it is usually around 15 minutes. There was once i penetrated her without condom but somehow it was quite dry and for a whole 40 minutes or so but she couldnt take it anymore so she just gave me a BJ but did not finish me off as she was too tired .
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    Well your a woman's dream, sort of use lube... 40 minutes dry is way too hard and hurts and cuts and well, we can't feel ok..

    At least she thinks of you, that's a really good start.

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    She may need to be drinking more water to stay better hydrated. I find that while I'm quite "juicy", I need usually need some lube with a condom. Some how it creates a different response. Having sex if she isn't really wet can be painful, I can't imagine how she tollerates it.

    When you are using your hands and she is moaning, don't stop and switch to penetration, keep it going until she orgasms, then you can switch to intercourse. Having cum she will be wetter and should be even more responsive.

    Does she masterbate? Can she bring herself to orgasm? Ask her to show you what she does. The two of you might benefit from some extra "homework", how about a few books? One Hour Orgasm would be a good one to help both of you learn about arousing and bringing each other to orgasm without intercourse. Going Down has instructions for oral sex for both partners and, I Love Female Orgasm, would be a good education for both of you.
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    Tell ya what man....get to be a proficient lover and a lot of your troubles will go away.

    The more she enjoys sex, the more she'll engage in it, and the more things she'll be willing to try.
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    Quote Originally Posted by qwerty989 View Post
    regarding the videos part i think she will object to it. She seems to have something against such material.

    also, for the condom issue. we usually have sex until the extent she is irritated of the pain and i will remove the condom and continue having sex. I will then use the withdrawal method to ejaculate.

    Btw is it ok to ejculate into her vagina when my gf just finish her PMS?
    If you want to remain 100% baby-free then you should never ejaculate inside her.
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    Just an FYI... If you are inside your gal at all even if you pull out before ejaculation she can still get pregnant. There are usually a few sperm that will be in your pre cum. Also not all condoms are the same, maybe she is having a reaction to what you are using. Some have a better shape so better feeling. If you are not making her cum before you penetrate her then definitely get some lube. Make sure it is safe for condoms. Don't go anywhere near her backdoor until you have regular sex worked out.
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    She may not let you go down on her because she's self conscious.

    Quote Originally Posted by qwerty989 View Post
    i slide my fingers into her vagina. by the time she will usually start moaning and i will increase the speed and insert usually 2 fingers.
    Slide em out for a moment, put em in your mouth, and go 'hmm hmm'
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    What is hummming on his fingers going to do for her ? Maybe you need to expand this a bit?
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    Quote Originally Posted by WildChild View Post
    What is hummming on his fingers going to do for her ? Maybe you need to expand this a bit?
    I'm guessing so the gf knows he's not repulsed by the taste, maybe? If he sucks on his fingers during/after, she may realize it's not bad...
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