Hey everyone. I have a couple of questions and you can say concerns. I hope someone can help and educate me because I find myself clueless when it comes to these issues.
First, I have been married for a couple of months now and my husband is amazing. He tries his best to give me as much pleasure as possible so i can get an orgasm, but unfortunately I can't get there. What can be done? I want to reach my climax because I hear its an amazing feeling. What should I do?
Second, this may be a funny question but I need an answer. When someone is trying to calculate her new monthly cycle, when does the new month begin? People tell me its when the first day of your period comes thats the new month.
Thank you for your time.

Hmmm.... Have you tried any type of vibrators? I know that would make your husband probably feel like he can't do the job but once you get the first one, I think the rest of them start to come a little easier. Has your husband given you oral sex? Oh and the period answer, your cycle begins on the first day of your period. Hope I helped and if you have any more questions feel free to ask. That is what we are here for.

And ovulation is said to occur about 14 days before the first day of your period. Just thought I would throw that in there too.

I agree that some times a vibrator is just the added help you may need to have an orgasm. I would suggest first getting a small, hard clitoral stimulator to apply while you are either getting oral sex or regular sex. You will find that it adds a LOT more stimulation. I was never able to reach an orgasm either until I tried that.

It also helps to experiment with your man. Get some books on orgasms and sexual positions. Try new things. Make sure you both communicate well about sex and what feels good. The more in tune you are with each other, the easier the orgasms will come.