Actually the better sex is and the more likely I am to have an orgasm the less I'm thinking about anything. When she says she's thinking about nothing it may not mean she isn't paying attention to what's going on. It probably just means she's not having stray thoughts, which is good, not worrying too much about what she should be doing, which is also good, and also not making up any sexual fantasies, which is useful for some but not necessary. I never found my conscious mind to be any good at sexual fantasy. I have a very vivid imagination and got through the boredom of highschool making up stories and places in my head pretty much from the time I woke up until school ended 8hours later. My subconscious can play out sex dreams to the point of giving me orgasms in my sleep. When I'm doing things while awake though it is most effective to think about nothing in particular.



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