jsgirl

Sorry if something like this has been posted before......

I am looking for some suggestions, advice etc. Everything is very much welcomed!

I am 25 and a virgin. I am getting ready to have sex for the first time, with a man who is pretty experienced.

I feel like i may be a let down to him, or not be "exciting" enough for him......

Any suggestions for how i can deal with this??

Thanks in advance

x.st.angel.x

If he is aware that you're a virgin he should understand that it is your first time and that it will take you time to get used to it. I can be painful for some women as well. Have you two spoken about it?

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OhThereYouAre

If he's indeed experienced, he'll make sure that you are enjoying yourself and that your needs are met.

Trust me...all you have to do is show up and he'll be pleased.

Have fun and use some type of birth control.

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WildChild

And STI protection

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qwerty989

just relax and release ur inner demon! Most importantly dont be shy. For me i like my woman to make some noise and tell me what she wants

jsgirl

Thanks guys and girls.

I have got the protection side of things covered.

We have spoken briefly about it and he is worried that i will get hurt or be in pain.

He isnt sure about my hymen breaking. if i should try and do it myself first or just let it happen?

qwerty989

even tho i am not quite sure about hymen breaking, i think it wont be painful as long as u use lube and take it slowly if it hurts. that might solve the problem =)

Texasred

And JS;
Here's hoping that guy is deserving of being your "First!"

Antonia

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PJhavinfunagain

You should both talk about it a bit more. Do not let it become a huge deal. If you are both stressed about it neither of you will have a good time. Relax, enjoy the wonder of exploring each other. If it happens when you plan then good if not it is OK! I sure hope he is deserving and that you both really care about each other. Yes there may be some pain but it does not last long and if he is giving you the attention you need you may not notice.

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