Sorry, I know this is a little older, but found this site and saw this post and wanted to ask you a question. When you masturbate yourself, are your fingers over the hood pushing down on the clitoris, vs your partner giving you direct clitoral stimulation?

The reason I ask, is this is the case for me. Direct clitoral stimulation feels great but is too intense for me to climax. So the pressure has to come from the hood being pushed down on the clitoris.