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I was brought up with very old fashion ways about how certain things cannot be spoken out loud in public. I kinda want to know does a woman's hormone change on it's own? I donno the past little while? My head's been kind of funny ; I've been a lot more interested in SEX. You could say Ive been thinking about it A LOT. That's not really me.... My best friend calls it " sexual frustration". But then again that woman thinks sex cures everything! so her opinion doesn't really count....

I kind of wanna know an outsiders opinion. Is it normal???

CHANDLERS WISH

You know I've answered you on other threads

Your a "lady" that's the bottom line.....

You can't just "do it for the sake of it" you have morals and values.

Want my opinion?

Me too.. I am the same, 18 months no sex, and so it goes on but you know something? Once in a while when I feel give a shirt, I will have that causal fling, have, .... Only because it's the moment, it's a feeling and it's OK...

You can be a lady and continue to be so, but you can also make a management decision and just be you for one night, because you are woman and sometimes you need to roar.

Make sense?

Don't listen to others, some women are so premiscuious that they don't care full stop and others like us do and enjoy waiting and finding... It's kind of special... But there is nothing wrong with "a moment" either... if you feel safe and it's what you want to do, we live once.

It's a moment and feels right, the only thing is you know in your heart if you do it, there will be no relationship as the other person sees, "a moment" men take along time to emotionally bond but a woman can bond from the moment she sleeps with a man, she assumes, " he is hers", not the case. Bare that in mind if you feel it? Do it.. causiously, carefully but know it's a moment. .

CW

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LanaBear

There's nothing wrong with those thoughts, it's human nature, we all have similar ones, well most of us anyways. You definitely don't need help because of the thoughts.

I agree with CW on this. You can be a lady and have sex, think sex, indulge in sex, it's okay. Have fun, that's what it is meant for...

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