Thread: I think my boyfriend is bisexual

Originally Posted by LoverofSEX

I think a bi-man could live a normal life as a st8 man, at least I have for 38 years. Given the right person in the right situation I could give that person a BJ but that's as far as my dreams go. I did some fooling around (MM & BJ) with three of my peers when I was 14/16 and the desire has been there all these years. We have three grown boys.... controlled.

I agree. It seems in your case you have bi tendencies but are more hetero. Im curious... Would you ever tell your wife that you have a remote attraction to men? Have you ever felt a real desire to cheat being of the bi persuasion as sorrid suggests is easier and more likely in bi men?

Originally Posted by Uneeklyme

I agree. It seems in your case you have bi tendencies but are more hetero. Im curious... Would you ever tell your wife that you have a remote attraction to men? Have you ever felt a real desire to cheat being of the bi persuasion as sorrid suggests is easier and more likely in bi men?

Of course, I would like to hear the answer also. I think he already answered he might be able to engage in a BJ. Is that right? Not sure I got it straight...(NO pun intended.)

Seems to me that if you really think a bi guy can't be faithful to a female, you are saying that sex with a female is no where near as pleasurable. I just don't think that is true.
I can see that if the guy is actually gay, pretending to be bi.

Originally Posted by Merry

Seems to me that if you really think a bi guy can't be faithful to a female, you are saying that sex with a female is no where near as pleasurable. I just don't think that is true.
I can see that if the guy is actually gay, pretending to be bi.

I am not sure who this is addressed to, Merry, but my answer would be that maybe I am of the mind that a lot of bisexual guys lean toward men *sexually* (not necessarily emotionally). I didn't really know I felt that way until recently, but I guess I do, in general.