sonalncsu09

Hi,

I enjoy giving my wife oral pleasure, and she enjoys it a lot too. I suck her gently first and then follow her rhythm, finally she goes kind of wild. But she never had orgasm through oral. After oral she feels tired and doesn't feel like doing sex. What shall we do so that she doesn't loose interest in having penetration after intense oral? Shall we reduce oral sex time? Shall I start doing penetration, when she reaches peak during oral?

Thanks

WildChild

Does she orgasm from other stimulation?

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Mes_T

I kind of get tired after oral as well, just because I know (or at least, have a preconceived notion) that it won't make me orgasm anyway, and oral that lasts too long is kind of a waste of time or boring.

In your case I would do oral for a little while maybe, and then move on to other stimulation where she can orgasm. Then she'll be jumpin' off the walls I bet.

OhThereYouAre

If she's orgasmic, maybe try working toward her having an orgasm during intercourse.

Try some new things. It just takes a lot of communication, time, patience and some work on both parts.

Until your significant other finds intercourse as pleasurable as you, it's likely she won't be as interested in it as you.

Good luck.

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