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  1. 11-09-2009 03:32 PM #1
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    Default New to this.. advice please

    Hey guys- so I have finaly met a nice guy. And we just started dating...
    our dating involves just seeing each other now- (2 or 3 days new thing)
    So anyway.

    Ihave two questions

    1. When is it too soon to have sex in this dating period?

    2. Like I have mentioned before..do you think that guys look down upon women that have darker skin down there? Ikinda feel so insecure in my own body because of them. That harms my confidence and therefore my horney self...

    THankyou !
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    1. Before you feel comfortable.

    2. Not at all.
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    what is the general thought process that guys go in their mind when they see its darker down there? Is it unhygenic? They wont o down on you?
    Thankyou for your reply tex!
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    It's just skin color. It doesn't really mean anything. I don't see why anybody should have a problem with it if its darker.
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    Quote Originally Posted by insecuresex View Post

    2. Like I have mentioned before..do you think that guys look down upon women that have darker skin down there?
    2. Nobody that you'd want to get to know any better. Skin is beautiful, and dark skin is just a color.
    A very nice one, btw...
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    More times than not, in my own experience, it has to do with hair color. I know guys who can shave their face and still have an outline of a beard (albeit faint).

    It's not a turn off unless your lips are hanging low too.

    To answer question 1: It's never too early as long as you're ready.

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    I have darker skin down there too, and when I dated a darker skinned guy, he REALLY appreciated it!
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    And even when you *think* it's time to have sex....i'd put it off a bit longer.

    Best things come to those who wait.

    And you'll never get another first time with this particular guy.

    Good luck.
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    Quote Originally Posted by OhThereYouAre View Post
    Best things come to those who wait.
    That explains why I got sick with botulism poisoning!

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    Quote Originally Posted by OhThereYouAre View Post
    And even when you *think* it's time to have sex....i'd put it off a bit longer.

    Best things come to those who wait.

    And you'll never get another first time with this particular guy.

    Good luck.
    Interesting.
    As a guy, this is advice you'd never expect to hear from a guy, right?

    But I agree: if it's meant to be, you can wait a little bit and the anticipation will make it even better.
    And if it's not right, you'll stand a better chance of finding out.
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