Thread: bf wants me to be "filthy"

Originally Posted by Tex

'Nah, dumb dumb, I want you to tear that a*s UP!'

Lmao. Totally... He doesn't even smack my a$$ or anything.

You should ask him what his fantasies are, and then try and figure out a way to fulfill them.

But overall, you need to have attitude in bed. Match how rough he's giving it to you, and then try to be even rougher.

You should try initiating things instead of waiting for him. When you're out together, find a spot to pull him aside for some flirty kissing and grinding. Basically to tease him until it's just you and him later on.

You could even try being "filthy" in public with him at like a club. Everyone there is already dancing, so no one will be staring you down or pressuring you. It'll give you a chance to let loose and grind your man up and down. I tried this and it worked like a charm. I gave him lap dances, I danced on the table in front of him. I basically acted like his private entertainment for the night and it got him so hot and bothered. lmao he loved how dirty i was being with him, especially because we were in public and it was like i was marking him as my territory and no other girl could touch him, and no other guy could touch me. he's not the jealous type, but stuff like that is hot no matter what. just knowing the person you're with wouldn't want to be any where else, or with any one else.

I hope this is helpful, good luck! let out your inner freak girl!

thank you for all ur replies i went and brought a sexy little outfit from Ann summers and wore it with my leather boots which got a very good reaction lol even though i was very embarrassed at first as I'm not that confident but he soon made all that disappear by complimenting me...

keep the suggestions coming going to try some of ur other suggestions to thankyou x

Hi sexyredhead, Sounds like your off to a good start, I think the more he gets into it and compliments you the better your confidence will get and the easier it will all get! When the fear of doing something wrong is taken out it leaves the door wide open for being filthy lol. I have a tendancy to think its all about the attitude, if you can turn the sexy up on it you cant really go that wrong talk dirty and tell him what you want and the encouragement you get will just make it better.
To the exmrs, lol I think you need to sit and have a talk to your bf about this, romance is great and making love can be awesome but sometimes you just cant beat plain old awesome dirty sex every now and then as well lol it becomes too predictable, I think I have reffered to sex as making love once or twice but then I have pretty funny guidelines as what i would call making love lol.

Look up a clothing site called Leather Obsession

My b/f must be on their Christmas card list he's bought me so much stuff there, from dresses, boots, tops, and skirts to accessories.

Wearing that stuff and talking dirty to him, I can make my guy roll on the floor and beg.

You don't need a lot or a whole outfit. They have a collar with chain necklace. Wearing just that and one of the pairs of thigh high boots he picked by themselves I can get him to agree to do the dishes and laundry for a month.