Thread: i need help :( pleaseeeeee

Honey, you're trying to fix something out of your control. The question shouldn't be how can I want to have sex with this monster again, it should be how can I dump his .

Clearly he's going through something and taking it out on you. It's killing you in every way possible, and what your concerned about is sex? He doesn't deserve you girl! Get out of that abusive relationship and find someone who treats you right. Try not to think things like, he needs me so I can't leave. No, he's using you to dump his negative attitude on and that's not okay. You need to do what's best for you. Get out of there, stay single for awhile and then try and find a healthy relationship to be in. You'll know when you found one because your sex drive will be back full force. =]

I hope this is helpful. Hang in there hon.

For men sex is more for the physical pleasure and for women it is to share and feel love and intimacy through sex. Well in your boyfriend's case hes trying to get what he wants without giving you the things you want. If you really want to fix the relationship, you should have a talk with him and why he's being abusive and hurtful to you but I think this would be a very hard thing to do. Anyways the hard way would be to resolve this situation and get back with him to where you want it to go or the easy way would be to break up and find another guy where you can get the love and intimacy you want and have great sex.

Well i've had an emotionally abusive b/f before and he would hit me sometimes and it got to a point that i noticed that not only was my sex drive dead, but that i really wasn't attracted to him anymore. In fact i just felt bad for him and loved him in a different way, and that was unhealthy. I left him and even though he has changed we still remain friends and he has been there for me, but i will dare not get back with him.
After leaving him I then went out again with another guy who was a year younger than me. It's been a year+ and he worships the ground i walk on. Fully and completely he'll seriously do anything for me. It took him to make me realize that i DO deserve that because every day he tells me he loves me and how special i am.

You deserve that too, and i think your not in love with him in that same way anymore. Maybe you feel sorry for him or maybe your just scared to venture out. But you should because it's worth it when you find that man that will worship you.

Sign him upto W/H we'll be happy to sort him out haha



But really, If you want him to respect you again, you need to respect yourself! Tell him to pull his socks up or sod off!

If he decides to sod off then...make sure you make a joke about his willy before he goes. See how he likes being be-littled

Originally Posted by shweedart

If he decides to sod off then...make sure you make a joke about his willy before he goes. See how he likes being be-littled

Defenately!! Give him a bit of his own medicine, and a big piece of your mind!!

Its very simple, he's an A ss so he should expect a lot of S hit!!
(and thats probably what you can expect aswell...)


Sweethart, it's not nice to hear all this because you love him, but it seems to me this thing is beyond fixing, you deserve a guy who will return your love!!