Thread: My b/f wants something a little to crazy for me

I think I've heard of this happening in porn...personally, I'd tell him that you are not interested in having any esophageal spasms and that open doesn't necessarily mean boundary-less.

As others have said, don't do anything you don't want. I'm very open, but for me, vomit would be outside of my hard limits.

Maybe it isn't the throwing up, but the dominance / forced aspect. You might be able to role-play that without doing anything uncomfortable. Let him threaten you with a (fake!) knife, beg and cry (but have a safe word!), and pretend to be disgusted, gag and spit when he finishes in your mouth.

Of course maybe that sort of role-play is even less appealing - if so DON'T DO IT.

Does he do things to fit your fantasies?

I'm all for trying to satisfy you partner's fantasies, but everyone has limits, and those limits differ from person to person.

Could be a psychological thing for him, that if deep throating him causes you to gag and throw up then it must mean that he has an extra large and powerful penis.

Then again you can also gag and throw up just by stuffing a finger down your throat so him being able to do that with his penis is not really a compliment for him.

Hi Domo, hope I am not intruding I am a boy, so thought I may be able to add a little alternative perspective

I have never heard of Vomit DT fantasy. Your BF is interested in something you are not tell him. Pick your time so not to hurt his feeling or he may never ask to do something you really want.

There is alot DT porn out there with gagging and gagging spit/byle

Offer an alternative you think he will like or ask him to suggest something else

I guess it's one of two things:

A dominace thing In that case compromise at some light S+M or
Get him to stand up and you kneel down and DT like that look up at him while you do it

A tick in the box (money see monkey do) A was a virgin I must now do everything: Alfresco check; 3 some check; anal check.

It's good to be adventurous if you've encouraged him to be open then you owe it to him and yourself to be open in returrn. If he loves you he'll be a bit miffed but he will get over it and he may even respect you a little more. If he doesn't understand he's not the one even if you think he is.

good luck

Only do what you want, period. Having said that, what he wants is to in the nuts group for me personally.