Thread: spicey spicey

Well i would suggest anal, but... lol

It's hard to give suggestions as of course i don't know what your sex life is like.. Dirty talk is always good, a bit of bondage (as a test, try pinning his wrists down next time you ride him incase he does't like it).. Being spontaneous, role play, stripping, lap-dancing, the masturbation thing is definitely a good route to go down but after reading the same previous thread, it may be a good idea to give it a go infront of him first, when he's awake, to see if he likes it or not.
My fiance really loves it when i sit on his chest and masturbate, it drives him crazy, especially if i rest my legs on his arms so he can't touch me. And if i'm just a tad too far away for his tongue to reach.. all the better!

Hmm.. There's also alfresco sex, filming yourself (just make sure you always have the tape, no matter how trust-worthy he is), tantric sex is FANTASTIC!!!! And it's also good for if you have trouble orgasming through penetration, or if he is usually too quick for you.

Haha!
Not too familiar with Jamiroquai so i couldn't tell you, ducky.

The way i did it was..

We were lying in bed one night watching tv (note, this is a good thing to try if he's watching sports lol) and i asked him if he wanted a can from the fridge. Of course he said yes. When i came back upstairs i was wearing my black (faux ) silk dressing gown with some sexy lingerie underneath. I grabbed the remote from his hand and threw it on the chair behind me. I put on a CD -i used 'Sitting ontop of the world' by Cream, in my opinion a highly sexual sounding song! Or one to get high to lol- and he sat bolt upright as he realised what i was doing. I slowly untied my robe and dropped it to the floor (you can also use the rope to tie him down with too!) and just went from there. Just think about showing your body off, teasing him, you don't necessarily have to dance, it's more about how you hold yourself. Make sure you keep eye-contact, kinda look at him asthough you're peed off with him lol, but with the tiniest hint of a smile. Main things are, keep your back arched -this of course pushes out your bum and boobs and makes your waist look smaller, let him see you from behind and the front when doing this.
Keep your legs poker straight and resist the urge to smile, or show any expression. Let him know you mean business!
From the strip you can then climb on his lap and grind about, just don't let him touch you

try asking him what he wants

Originally Posted by Steph33

try asking him what he wants

Now there's an idea.