Thread: question about female sexual pleasure

Your entire post sounds completely normal and average. About the only suggestion I have is to try to find something that gets you more aroused and interested since having your mind wander means you really aren't doing things that will get you very far. You mostly just have to experiment with what does work and expand slowly until you find lots of things that work. Even then some women just don't find something that let's them orgasm through sex every time. It's pretty standard for my husband to pull out a toy to use on me after we have sex.

All low dose birth control actually messed more with the my sex drive and even how sensitive I was to things than pills considered high dose or riskier. I keep going back to yasmin. However I don't think it's actually the dose. I think it's the type of hormones used. Different pills can have quite different hormones and each person tolerates them differently. I don't think taking something lower dose really has much impact on your response to the hormones only on your risk of other health related side effects like blood clots. It's the specific hormone itself that seems to determine what emotional or sexual effects will happen.

Know the feeling I was talking about this to my partner the other day a girl can sometimes do a whole 4 minute flat and its over masturbation and the same thing could take over half an hour with a partner. I have my moments where its just not going to happen it really depends where my mind is to how long it takes to get into the mood and the swing of things. If my partner has flirted with a few grabs here and there and what not by the time we go to bed I can cum in about 10 minutes or less because im focused on whats about to happen and its there and in my head. If we go to bed and I have no clue its about to happen then that can take that to half an hour or more, depending on the mood im in when I go to bed.
Itsasecret, it isn't that much of a surprise what works one day wont work the next because generally women that are comfortable with their bodies and their sexuality also crave variety, once it has been done a few times its not exciting any more its routine, lol you know whats coming, it takes a little away from you. One day i'm sure you will get your 2 minute rub and cum it just really does take practise. I have my one way that never fails me if im in the mood but in saying that its because I masturbated like that since I was 14 lol the body is well aware that I want the job done quickly then and it responds. We are all a little different I guess.