Embarrassed With A Phone Call Incident!!!

barbiedoll · 11-21-2009, 09:16 AM

I wasn't going to post this but it's been bothering me so here goes.

Here's a brief scenario.....surprise flowers delivered to me from my hubby a couple of hours before he gets home, I make him his favorite meal, and we make love and fall asleep in each others arms for the night.

Fast forward to next day....he and I briefly all through the day, telephone and remind each other of the previous night, you know the WOW effect for both of us. After lunch and before I had to finish up some last minute work, I called him to tell him what I was going to be wearing and then do to him when he got home and walked through the door. I wanted to change phones and unbeknowst to me, I accidentally hung up on him before I picked up the cordless. A second later the phone rang and I just knew it was him calling back. I proceded to tell him other things I was going to do, went into detail for seemed like forever until I stopped talking and there was a silence. I thought he would say something like 'I can't wait to get home' or 'I'll see if I can get off a little early' but instead.....his golfing buddy says "Uh, I'd really, uh I'd really, really like to but I think my wife and your husband would have a problem with that". I told him I'm sorry, thought he was my hubby calling back, and hung up. Immediately the phone rang and my hubby told me he had called back and got voicemail and wanted to know who was on the phone and I told him who and what I said and then what his buddy said. He thought it was hilarious but I didn't. I felt like crawling under the table.

I know that I'll be seeing his golfing buddy sooner rather than later and know he'll play it up too. He'll probably even tell his extremely jealous wife. They've been married a little over a year and several of her friends have given her the fitting name of 'snooty'. I told my hubby my feelings and my hurt and he just blows it off and tells me I need to, too. It doesn't work quite like that. I shared a portion of my soul to another man even if it was only a few minutes and the mistake hurts. Any ideas on how to get over it quicker? The same council I would give another woman under the same circumstances just hasn't come to fruition yet. HELP?

**rcoreyus** · 11-21-2009, 10:56 AM

Just laugh it off - he's probably jealous as . I once sent an email to my wife - except the Outlook auto-complete sent it to another woman at work with the same first name...

**caterpillar79** · 11-21-2009, 10:59 AM

Let this be your ice-breaker. Laugh it off. Be good to yourself by not over-thinking the incident.

**Steph33** · 11-21-2009, 12:19 PM

similar more than once with us happened, a laugh. We figure some other guy or girl had a nice wet dream as our gift each time. We got the real deal, like you 2 did

**Awoman2** · 11-21-2009, 01:49 PM

That was hilarious.

You would do well to laugh it off and move on. Your being embarrassed about it is just stretching it out longer unnecessarily.

**nightqueen** · 11-21-2009, 01:59 PM

You seem to have a happy marriage and sex life, which is awesome. Innoncent mistake, and there is nothing you can really do but what others said--laugh it off and move on. I bet the other guy is jealous.

**CHANDLERS WISH** · 11-21-2009, 02:41 PM

Quote:

I bet the other guy is jealous.

Second that. Instead of being embarrassed, realise that you just showed "yourself" your ALL WOMAN and that's something that people ADMIRE.

CW

**WildChild** · 11-21-2009, 02:47 PM

Laughing it off is your best solution.

**Tex** · 11-21-2009, 02:51 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by nightqueen

I bet the other guy is jealous.

No kidding. He wishes his wife would talk to him like that. I'd bet a lot of guys wish their wives would talk to them like that. Be proud, not embarrassed!

**Explorer44** · 11-21-2009, 03:38 PM

I'm just guessing here but he probably went home and tried get HER to do all those wonderful sexy things......

And BOY will he respect your husband for marrying yoU!

11-21-2009, 09:16 AM	#1
barbiedoll Junior Member Join Date: Aug 2009 Posts: 22	Embarrassed With A Phone Call Incident!!! I wasn't going to post this but it's been bothering me so here goes. Here's a brief scenario.....surprise flowers delivered to me from my hubby a couple of hours before he gets home, I make him his favorite meal, and we make love and fall asleep in each others arms for the night. Fast forward to next day....he and I briefly all through the day, telephone and remind each other of the previous night, you know the WOW effect for both of us. After lunch and before I had to finish up some last minute work, I called him to tell him what I was going to be wearing and then do to him when he got home and walked through the door. I wanted to change phones and unbeknowst to me, I accidentally hung up on him before I picked up the cordless. A second later the phone rang and I just knew it was him calling back. I proceded to tell him other things I was going to do, went into detail for seemed like forever until I stopped talking and there was a silence. I thought he would say something like 'I can't wait to get home' or 'I'll see if I can get off a little early' but instead.....his golfing buddy says "Uh, I'd really, uh I'd really, really like to but I think my wife and your husband would have a problem with that". I told him I'm sorry, thought he was my hubby calling back, and hung up. Immediately the phone rang and my hubby told me he had called back and got voicemail and wanted to know who was on the phone and I told him who and what I said and then what his buddy said. He thought it was hilarious but I didn't. I felt like crawling under the table. I know that I'll be seeing his golfing buddy sooner rather than later and know he'll play it up too. He'll probably even tell his extremely jealous wife. They've been married a little over a year and several of her friends have given her the fitting name of 'snooty'. I told my hubby my feelings and my hurt and he just blows it off and tells me I need to, too. It doesn't work quite like that. I shared a portion of my soul to another man even if it was only a few minutes and the mistake hurts. Any ideas on how to get over it quicker? The same council I would give another woman under the same circumstances just hasn't come to fruition yet. HELP? Last edited by barbiedoll; 11-21-2009 at 09:18 AM.

11-21-2009, 10:59 AM	#3
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11-21-2009, 02:47 PM	#8
WildChild Gold Contributor 500+ Posts Join Date: Sep 2008 Location: Western USA Posts: 7,875 Blog Entries: 6	Laughing it off is your best solution. __________________ We can only learn to love by loving. Iris Mudoch, British writer

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11-21-2009, 10:56 AM	#2
rcoreyus March 2008 "Poster of the Month" Join Date: Sep 2007 Location: SF bay area Posts: 1,590	Just laugh it off - he's probably jealous as . I once sent an email to my wife - except the Outlook auto-complete sent it to another woman at work with the same first name...

11-21-2009, 12:19 PM	#4
Steph33 Silver Contributor 100+ Posts Join Date: Jan 2009 Posts: 289	similar more than once with us happened, a laugh. We figure some other guy or girl had a nice wet dream as our gift each time. We got the real deal, like you 2 did

11-21-2009, 01:49 PM	#5
Awoman2 VIP Member Join Date: Oct 2009 Posts: 30	That was hilarious. You would do well to laugh it off and move on. Your being embarrassed about it is just stretching it out longer unnecessarily.

11-21-2009, 01:59 PM	#6
nightqueen Silver Contributor 100+ Posts Join Date: Jan 2009 Posts: 195	You seem to have a happy marriage and sex life, which is awesome. Innoncent mistake, and there is nothing you can really do but what others said--laugh it off and move on. I bet the other guy is jealous.

11-21-2009, 03:38 PM	#10
Explorer44 Gold Contributor 500+ Posts Join Date: Oct 2009 Location: Florida - I can watch the shuttle launch! Posts: 566	I'm just guessing here but he probably went home and tried get HER to do all those wonderful sexy things...... And BOY will he respect your husband for marrying yoU!