Thread: Little Help from You Knowledgable Woman

My ex had simular issues, the guy i was with before him was way more hansome, succesfull, you name it, and i was complaining i didnt feel wanted by my bf!

What i was looking for was some variation (not just missionaris!!), i wanted him to touch me more, seduce me more and show me what his turn ons were!

He made me feel like the princes on the pea, but remember please, we dont break if you hold us tightly! I love it when a guy pulls my hair, squeezes my legs or nibbels my neck! And him not doing those things, because he was afraid of hurting me was driving me mad! And i love it when a guy knows what he wants, especially in the bed room! So if you want to do it doggie style, firmly push her that way, but without being forcefull ofcourse.. Anyways, she sounds like the kind of girl that will tell you if she doesnt like something.. Dont be afraid of trying new stuff, she'll only appreciate your enthousiasm!

And please dont be insecure about anything, she's with you, so that means you're doing well on all levels!! You sound like a really sweet guy that makes sure his girl has a good time between the sheets. So make sure you're having fun too, cos that will turn her on big time! Sex is about havind fun, so be a little crazy and let yourself go

She's a lucky girl to have you!

Hello Ladies!

Sorry for the delayed response but I haven't been near a PC for the past few days. Been busy spending my past few evenings with my lady, just the 2 of us and nothing else, its been great! We have done things with each other that we haven't done before, like stripping, blind folds, feathering, playful camera fun... Its all just been amazing, honestly the last few nights I've felt closer to her than I ever have, we both came out of our shells a quite a bit

All your advice has been great, although most of that stuff I already did on my own, it was great to hear I was heading down the right path. I think my main problem isn't so much what I was doing but more so the fact that I don't get aggressive enough when it comes to me showing/voicing that I want these things to lead to something more. Instead I wait for her to acknowledge that she wants more and I make a move or wait for her to make one. I need to find away to just take charge and do it (easier said than done though :P) hehe

I know her past isn't really that big of a deal (and I really don't think about it too much) I guess I just sorta wish I was able to be more of a physical attraction for her, so when she looked at me I drive her crazy like she does for me...

You ladies have been a huge help with my ego/confidence in the things I do, so thank you!

Any more advice or suggestions are more than welcome

-Pascal