Thread: First Time?

Originally Posted by Tex

I wonder how often it hurts just because the woman is so afraid of it hurting that she tenses up? But year I've noticed too how many people make it sounds like the first time is awful and very painful. Who knows, maybe a secret conspiracy by parents to scare kids away from sex.

I don't think so, my first time hurt and I bled a bit. However it didn't hurt awfully. We had played around and he had fingered me quite a bit several times before, I would get aroused and be fairly wet. I was so uninformed and naive that I had no idea what we were doing and no expectation that it might hurt.

Hard as it may be to believe I actually had no idea what intercourse or getting pregnant involved, I had a vague idea that it had something to do with navels because I'd been told not to let anyone see mine. I wasn't tense. Later when I explained to my best freind what we had done, she started yelling at me, "this means you're not a virgin anymore!" My response was, "What's a virgin?"